Dambudziko rinoramba riripo mubereki-sekurukurukuru ukama ndevokuti vabereki vanofunga kuti vanasekuru navanasekuru vari kudarika miganhu. Dzimwe nguva vanofunga kuti vanasekuru navanasekuru vanoderedza kodzero yevabereki yekuita zvisarudzo pamusoro pevana vavo. Dzimwe nguva dambudziko nderekuti vanasekuru navanasekuru vanoronga munharaunda dzakakosha uye vanomira ropafadzo dzakakosha dzinofanirwa kuva dzevabereki.
Vanasekuru navanambuya vakawanda vari kurera vazukuru vavo nekuda kwemamiriro ekunze kudarika kwavo. Ava vanasekuru navanambuya vanofanira kunge pamwe chete vachiita basa rekurera uye kubatana. Havasi vanasekuru navanambuya vachikurukurwa pano. Vanoita basa rakaoma uye vanofanirwa kurumbidzwa, kwete kutsoropodza.
Apo vanasekuru navanasekuru vanopa nguva dzose kuchengetwa kwevana , kana kana vachigara nevana vavana vavo mumusha wakawanda-siyana, mikana yemiganhu inowedzera inowedzera. Asi nyaya idzi dzinogona kuitika mumamiriro ose emhuri. Kuvhiringidza kwemiganhu inhau mumakakatanwa akawanda emhuri, kusanganisira kukakavadzana kunotungamirira kuna vanasekuru navanasekuru vachigurwa kubva kuvana vazukuru.
Zvinotaurwa neVabereki
Maziso angu akatanga kuvhurika kumusoro wemiganhu nemubereki uyo akaisa mune imwe yevabereki vangu. Nheyo huru yepamusoro payo yaiva kuti vanasekuru navanasekuru vanofanira kurega, nekuti vazukuru vavo havasi vana vavo, uye vanasekuru navanasekuru havazoiti kudana.
Akapa mazano kuna vanasekuru naGoogle "nzira yekuita kuti vanasekuru navanambuya vadzoke" kana "amai vamwene vanoita sevana vangu ndevake." Zvigumisiro, zvakakakavadzana, zvinoratidza kuti vanasekuru navanambuya vane mhosva yekusaremekedza miganhu.
Zvikurukuru Vanasekuru Vanofanira Kuita
Ndakangoita izvo zvaakataura, uye ndakaona zvimwe zvipingamupinyi.
Vanasekuru navanamai vakawanda vakaratidza uchapupu hwekukanganiswa mutambo pakati pekurera vana uye kubereka vana. Zvechokwadi, zviitiko izvi zvakataurwa nevabereki, avo vangangodaro kana vangasave vakatendeseka uye vasina hanya. Kunyange zvakadaro, ndakaona nzvimbo apo vamwe vanasekuru navanasekuru vakadarika miganhu. Heano mamwe mazano anobva pane zvandinoverenga:
- Vanasekuru navanasekuru havazoiti kuti vaite chisarudzo chevabereki, zvakadai sekuti vabatane-nguva , nguva yekudzidzira gorosi uye kana yava nguva yekudzidza. Mugumo wenhau.
- Sezvo vanasekuru navanambuya vasingakwanisi kuita sarudzo dzevabereki, iwe unofanira kurega kuratidza maonero ako nezvezvisarudzo zvakadaro. Kana ukabvunzwa pfungwa, iwe unogona kuipa, asi inotaurira iyo chidimbu. Kana iwe uchitaura pfungwa se "benzi," "kunyengera" kana "kusava nehanya," uye vabereki vanofunga kuenda kune iyo nzira, havazokanganwi mazwi enyu.
- Kana iwe uri sekurukuru uyo anopa mari kune vezukuru vako, rupiro ichocho hachikupi kuti uwedzere kuwedzera muhupenyu hwevana vavana vako. Iwe uchiri sekurukuru. Kana iwe usingakwanisi kurarama neicho chaiye, gadzirira kune mari yako.
- Usataurire vazukuru vako se "vana vangu," "shamwari dzangu," "vakomana vangu" kana "vasikana vangu." Izvi zvingaita seine mhosva zvakakwana kune vanasekuru navanasekuru. Zvechokwadi, isu tichati, tinoziva kuti havasi vedu. Inongova nzira yokutaura. Asi vabereki havana hanya. Havadi kunyatsoziva kuti vana vacho ndevanaani.
- Pane imwe nyaya yakabatana, vamwe vabereki vachipikisana naambuya vanodana mazita anoita semamama, akadai seMama Amai kana Mummi (shoko rechiFinnish kuna mbuya). Uye kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uzviti "amai" kumuzukuru, kukumbira ruregerero zvakanyanya kana amai chaiye havazombofi vakatenda kuti chakanga chiri chidimbu. (Nyaya iyi, yakawanda seyevamwe, inongova nechinetso nevanambuya.)
- Kana iwe uchivenga zita rezukuru wako, haufaniri kumbomira, kunyange kana vakakumbira maonero ako mwana asati aberekwa kana kuchine nguva yekurega kubvisa. Vabereki havasi kukumbira maonero ako nokuti maonero ako haana basa. Iwe hausi mubereki.
- Apo chiitiko chikuru chiri kuuya kana iwe uchida kutenga chipfeko christening, kubika chingwa chekutanga chekuberekwa kana kuveza mucheka weHalloween, famba zvinyoronyoro. Vamwe vabereki vachakugamuchirai kuita zvinhu izvi, asi vamwe vanozviona sekutora basa remubereki. Imhosva yekodzero yemadziteteguru yakatenderera nechekuti vanasekuru navanasekuru vakatora muzukuru wavo kuti vaone Santa Claus. Ini handisi ini.
- Pane imwe nhoroondo yakafanana, kana muzukuru achitora danho rokutanga kana kudzidza kudzidzira zita rake paanenge anewe, ramba wakanyarara pamusoro paro. Hapana chinhu chinogona kuwanikwa kuburikidza nekuratidza kuti mbuya sekuru vaivapo uye mubereki akanga asipo pane imwe nguva inokosha.
- Vanasekuru navanambuya vashoma vanoenda kuti vave pedyo nevana vavo. Zvakare, dzimwe mhuri dzichagamuchira kuswedera kwakadaro. Vamwe vachanzwa kuti rusununguko uye rusununguko rwavo rwakakanganisa. Kurukura usati waita.
- Ngwarira matambudziko ekupa zvipo. Kana iwe usina mubvunzo pamusoro pekuti chipo chairo chakakodzera, bvunza usati watenga. Iva kunyanya kunetseka nekutsvaga vabereki pazviitiko zvinopa zvipo.
Iye zvino, kuti vabereki vasazobuda muchengeti-vakasununguka, heunoi rutivi rwenkurukuru nababa vavo munyaya yacho. Iwe unoda kuti vana vako vave navanasekuru navanasekuru muupenyu hwavo, handizvo here? Kana zvakadaro, gadzirira kukanganwira zvimwe zvisiri izvo. Vanasekuru navanasekuru havasi vakakwana. Edzai pane imwe nguva kutsamwisana nezvakanaka zvavanogona kuita muupenyu hwevana venyu.
Zviyero uye kuenzaniswa. Izvo pamusoro pekuvhara iyo.