Vakasimba-vanoda vana vane zvakawanda kupfuura kungowomesa musoro.
Kunyange zvazvo vana vose vangave vaine simba- dzimwe nguva, mwana ane simba-ane hanya zvechokwadi anoratidza humwe unhu hunoenderana. Zvakare zvinonzi "vana vane mwoyo yakasimba," vane simba vanoda vana vanogona kuonekwa kubva pamaminiti avanozvarwa.
Kuva nesimba-kuda hazvifananidzi ne "mwana akaipa." Vakasimba-vanoda vana vana vakatsunga kuita zvinhu maererano nemashoko avo pachavo.
Uye kazhinji, izvo zvinokonzera matambudziko kune vanhu vakuru vanovapoteredza.
Asi usati watanga kufunga kuti kuzvidzivirira kwomwana wako kuchaita kuti ave nengozi kumagariro evanhu, ramba uchiyeuka kuti mafungiro ake angangodaro ave echinhu pane zvimwe zvinhu muupenyu hwake. Kutaura zvazviri, chidzidzo chemakore makumi mana chakabudiswa muPurtual Psychology chakawana kuti vana vanoputsa mitemo vanova vamwe vevanowana mari yakawanda sevakuru.
Pano pane gumi zvinowanzozivikanwa uye mafambiro evana vane simba rakaoma:
1. Vanoratidzira Hasha Dzoutsinye
Apo vana vose vanokanganisa kusuruvara , vana vane simba vanoda vana vanoratidza kutsamwa kwakanyanya kusingabatsiri kwenguva yakareba. Vane kuora mwoyo kunokonzera uye vanoedza kuratidza kutsamwa kwavo nenzira yakagadzikana yevanhu. Saka iwe unogona kuwana mwana ane simba-achida kuputika patsoka dzake, achizvikanda pasi, kana kukuratidza kuti anochema sei.
2. Vanoda Kuziva Chikonzero
Chimwe chezvinhu zvakaipisisa mwana ane simba anoda kunzwa anogona, "Nokuti ndakataura kudaro." Vanoda kuziva kuti nei vasingakwanisi kuita chimwe chinhu kana kuti nei makaisa mimwe miganhu.
Vachabvunza mibvunzo uye vanoomesa mitemo yenyu haisi yakarurama.
3. Vanogona Kurwisana Nokusingaperi
Vakasimba-vanoda vana havaregi kana vasingabvumirani. Vanoda kupindira muhondo dzemasimba uye kushivirira kwavo kusindimara kunowanzovashandira sezvavanochera vamwe vanhu kunze. Ivo vakura vanobatana avo vakanaka pakuwana zvipfeko uye zvisizvo.
4. Vari Bossy
Vakasimba-vanoda vana vane chiratidzo mupfungwa dzavo pamusoro penzira iyo zvinhu zvinofanira kuve uye vanowanzotanga nzira yekugadzirisa pfungwa iyi kuva yechokwadi. Havana dambudziko kuudza vezera ravo kuti vangamira sei kana kuti vangaita sei uye havana kunyara pamusoro pekuudza vanhu vakuru zvavanofanira kuita.
5. Vanoramba kuita zvinhu zvavasingadi kuita
Usapedza simba rako richiedza kuita kuti mwana ane simba akada kuita chinhu chaasingadi kuita. Kugunun'una, kukumbira, uye kururamisa hakukwanisi kukuendesa kupi zvako. Vakasimba-vanoda vana vanochera muzvitsitsinho zvavo uye vanoramba kubuda.
6. Havana Kushivirira
Vakasimba-vanoda vana vanoda kuita zvose maererano nezvenguva dzavo. Vanovenga kuvamirira mumutsara pachitoro, havadi kumirira nguva yavo pavanotamba mutambo, uye havafariri kugara muimba yekumirira kuhofisi yechiremba. Havadi kuparadza imwe yechipiri kumirira mumwe munhu.
7. Vanoita Zvavanoda
Vakasimba-vanoda vana havafariri kunzwa manzwiro enyu pamusoro pekuti inguva ipi yekuvata. Pane kudaro, vangangodaro vanomanikidzira kuti vachaenda kunorara apo vakaneta. Vanosarudza kuita mazano avo uye kuisa mazano avo pane kutevera mitemo yemunhu.
8. Vanomanikidza Kuwana Zvavanofunga Kuti Vanofanirwa
Vakasimba-vanoda vana vanoomerwa kuti vanzwisise musiyano pakati pe "kuda" uye 'kuda.' Vangave vachida kutamba kunze kwemvura kana kudya mbwa inopisa yekudya kwekudya chamangwanani, ivo vachati vanofanira kuzviita. Uye kunyange pavanenge vachiwana zvakanyanya, vanosimbisa kuti havasi kuwana mugove wavo wakanaka.
9. Vanoramba Mazano Avo Vasingadi kunzwa
Udza mwana ane simba kuti ave 'akachenjerera,' kana kuti 'shandisa kufamba tsoka,' uye kana asina hanya, achakunyatsorega. Vakasimba-vanoda vana vakanaka pakusarudza kunzwa vakasarudza uye vanobvisa nyore nyore chero chinhu chisingakodzeri zvavanoda.
10. Vanofamba Nezvavanoda
Taurira mwana ane simba anoda kuenda kuPaki uye angangodaro akafamba sehando muchitoro chechina kuedza kubuda kunze kwemukova. Muudze kuti agadzirire kuenda kuchitoro uye angangotanga kweawa . Vakasimba-vanoda vana vanowanzodya nekukurumidza uye vachitaura nokukurumidza asi zvino vanofamba panhanho yekono kana vachiita chimwe chinhu chavasingadi kuita.
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