Kune mamwe mazwi mumashoko edu ezvichazoita , kunyanya chikamu, nguva dzose achibatana nevana vekuchikoro. "Aihwa." "Mine." "Gimme." Aya mazwi kazhinji anowirirana nekwevera, chirairo kana kukumbundira kumapfupa - mumamiriro ezvinhu ose, wechikoro chekutanga ari kuchengetedza chinhu chinokosha (kana kwete-icho-chinokosha), chinhu chavasingadi kuti mumwe munhu aende have.
Kudzidzisa vana kugovana chimwe chinhu chavasingadi kurega kunogona kuva basa rinotyisa, asi rinogona kuitwa. Heino nzira.
Dambudziko: Avhareji
Nguva Yakakodzera: Inofanirwa pamusoro pomwana
Heino Ndezvipi:
- Isa muenzaniso wakanaka . Kana iwe uchida kuti mwana wako wepachikoro adzidze kugovana, saka unofanira kugovana naye. Kana iwe uri kunwa pamapapu eaple, umupe iye. Anoda kuisa mavara nemakadhi ako here? Regai iye atore mufananidzo navo. Ita zvekuita muchiito nekutevedzera maitiro akanaka. Itai zvinhu pamwe nemumwe wako kana shamwari yako uye tora pfungwa kune chiito. "Baba vaKatenda kuburikidza nekugoverana nemapipi enyu neni." Ndinoda iyo patinogona kugovera chingwa chekudya pamwe chete. "
- Yeuka kuti zvikoro zvako zvepachikoro zvinhu uye zvigoni ndezvenyika yake. Remekedza ivo. Nemhaka yokuti ari muduku uye haana kutenga zvinhu zviri mubvunzo, ivo vachiri vake. Kana uchida kukwereta chimwe chinhu, iva nechokwadi chokuti ubvunze uye kuti unotenda kana wapedza. Ita kuti vana vakoma vaitevera. Chinonyanya kukosha, iva nechokwadi chokuti chinhu chiri mubvunzo chakanaka kana iwe uchidzoka.
- Iva nechokwadi chokuti mwana wako wepachikoro akaziva kuti kugovana chii uye kuti kana iwe uchigovana chido chako nemumwe munhu, haafaniri kuichengeta nokusingaperi. Kana iye asingadi kugovera chido chake, isa timer uye tsanangura kana nguva inopera, inguva yekurega mumwe mwana kuti ave nehanho. Paanoona kuti achawana chido chake kumashure, angangodaro achizozvipa munguva yemberi.
- Tsvaga kuti nei chikoro chako chisingadi kugovera chimwe chinhu. Yakanga iri chipo chinokosha kubva kune mumwe munhu here? Ichitsva here? Usati watanga mwana wako kuti usabatana, tsvaga kuti nei achiita nenzira iyi.
- Dzimwe nguva unogona kurova chigumbuso apo mumwe mwana asingabatanidzi nemwana wako muduku, asi achiri mukana wakanaka wekudzidzisa. Ita kuti mwana wako azviise pachedu shamwari dzake kuti aone kuti nei shamwari yake isingadi kugovana. Taura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Ndinofunga kuti chido ichi chinonyanya kukosha kune shamwari yako. Sei iwe usingawani chimwe chinhu chaunogona kutamba nayo?"
- Muratidze kuti kugovana chinhu chinonakidza. Ita mabasa nemitambo yakakosha kune maviri kana kupfuura - shanda patafura, tamba mutambo webhodhi kana kubika makiki pamwe chete. Kana chinangwa chacho chasvika - puzzles yapera kana makiki akagadzirira kudya - taura pamusoro pekukurukura kwaive kugoverana basa iro naye.
- Ziva kana zvakanaka kuti urege kugovana. Dzimwe nguva kune zvinhu izvo mwana wako wekuchikoro asati azvigadzirira kusiya. Uye ndizvo zvakanaka. Kana iwe uchimumanikidza kuti agovere chimwe chinhu chaasina kugadzirira kurega, zvinogona kupisa, zvichiita kuti atsamwire pane kupa. Pamberi pekutamba kwekutanga, torai mumba uye tora mwana wako kuti atore zvinhu zvaanenge asingadi kuti mumwe munhu atambe naye. Vaise munzvimbo inokosha. Zvadaro enda nepakati uye ugoona zvinhu zvakakosha zvekugovana - zvigadzirwa zvemifananidzo, mapuzzles , mitambo yebhodhi. Izvi zvichaisa toni yakanaka.
Mazano:
- Shandisa zvakasimba kusimbisa. Mpei zvinhu zvokugoverana neshamwari pane playdate kana kuchikoro sevanonamatira, nhokwe yekirasi kana zviduku zviduku. Paanoona kugoverana uku kungave kunonakidza, achave achida kuzviita ari oga.
- Apo shamwari inouya kuzotora playdate, bvunza vabereki vomwana kana vachikwanisa kuunza chiyiko kana kuti vaviri kuti vagovere. Kana mwana wako wechikoro achiona kuti shamwari yake iri kugovera zvinhu zvake, mwana wako angatevera zvinotevera.
- Iva nemwoyo murefu. Nguva ndeyekuenzanisa kukuru. Sezvo mwana wako achiwedzera ruzivo rwemagariro evanhu uye anoita shamwari dzechokwadi, nokukurumidza achaona kuti kugovana kunonakidza uye kuti kutamba neaanoda chido chacho neshamwari kunopfuura kutamba chete.
- Yeuka kuti kugovana hakusi nguva dzose kunosanganisira zvinhu zvinooneka. Gara pasi uyegovera nyaya kana basa. Uye shandisa iye shoko rokuti "share" kazhinji mumashoko ako. Kana iwe wechikoro wako unonzwa shoko rinowanirana, rinowanzova rakajairika uye wechipiri.
- Taura zvakanaka kugoverana paunozviona. Wakambowana bhegi rakanaka pane rimwe zuva rekuberekwa here? Taura kuti zvakanakisa sei mukomana wekuzvarwa kuti agovana neshamwari pazuva rake rinokosha. Shamwari yakagoverana nyoka panzvimbo yekutamba here? Iva nechokwadi chekuti iwe nemwana wako mudiki muvonge . Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, apo mwana wako wekuchikoro akagovana, iva nechokwadi chekuona.
Zvaunoda:
- Kushivirira
- Positive reinforcement
- Muenzaniso wakanaka
- Zvidhori zvakagadzirirwa kugoverwa - walkie talkies, mitambo yebhodhi, maikirwo emifananidzo
- Nzvimbo yekuisa teyi mwana wako haana kugadzirira kugovana zvakare
- Chimwe chinhu chakanaka iwe unogona kugovana necheche wako