Nzira Yaikuru Yevachikoro Vokutanga Vachida Kufara
Kusvikira ikozvino, wave uri mwana wekudya. Pamwe iwe wakakunda Candy Land, yakadyiwa kupfuura chikamu chako chakanaka chedhere pie uye wakavaka iyo yakanakisisa shongwe shongwe iri kurutivi rwe Mississippi. Asi sezvo wechikoro chako achikura uye anotanga kuenda kuchikoro kana masikati, hutano hwake huchawedzera uye playdates huchava chikamu chinokosha chehupenyu hwake.
Kutamba neshamwari pane playdate hakusi kungofara-kunyange zvazvo izvozvo zvechokwadi zvakakosha. Ushamwari hwako hwekutanga hwekuchikoro uye nguva dzekutamba dzichadzidzisa unyanzvi hwemagariro - maitiro ekugovana , kutenderera, uye kunyange kugadzirisa kusagadzirisa.
Kuti uwane zvakanakisisa kubva pamazuva ako okutanga ari kutamba, pano pane mamwe mazano:
Teerera Zvakanaka
Kana mwana wako achidzoka kumba achibva kuchikoro kana masikati, anotaura zita iroro kakawanda here? Bvunza kana angada kuti shamwari yake iuye kuzotamba kana kana kune vamwe vana mukirasi yake yaanoda kutamba nayo. Iwe unogonawo kumubvunza mudzidzisi kana pane mumwe mukomana kana musikana uyo mwana wenyu atora chiedza.
Zvishoma Kudarika
Paunenge uchiita playdate, kumbira shamwari imwe chete. Nhamba isinganzwisisiki nguva dzose inogutsikana kuti mumwe munhu achasiyiwa kunze. Uye uchengetedze kuungana kwenguva pfupi - pakati peawa maviri neawa kune nguva yakakwana.
Rambai Ruchiziva
Kana iri iri dhadhi yekutanga yevana vako, itai muimba yako kana pane imwe nzvimbo iyo mwana wako avepo kare.
Kana iyo playdate iri pamusha wemumwe munhu, gara. Kuvapo kwako kuchaita kuti mwana wako anzwe akasununguka, kunyanya kana pane kukakavara kana kana mwana wako achitya usina iwe. Saizvozvowo, kana playdate iri kuitirwa mumba mako, kumbira mubereki wemumwe mubereki kana muchengeti kuti agare kana kumurega achimuziva kuti akagamuchirwa kuti agare kusvikira mwana wake agaramo.
(Ndiani anoziva, iwe ungatowana shamwari itsva kubva mairi!)
Ronga Pamberi
Usati shamwari yako yemwana isvika, taurira mwana wako wekuchikoro pamusoro pezvaanoda kuita neshamwari yake. Kana terevhizheni nemakombiyuta zvisingachaperi, mutaurire iye saizvozvo. Kana iwe uchifunga kuti pane chirayiko chako mwana wako angave asingadi kugovana, chiisei kure. Bvunza mwana wako kuti chii chaanoda kushumira.
Iva Ipo, Asi Usingaoneki
Kana mushanyi wemwana wako asvika, usangovasiya pairi. Ratidzai zvimwe zvinhu zvinogona kuputsa mazaya uye kuti zvinhu zviende. Batsira kuisa mamwe maikirwo kana mutambo wavanoda kutamba. Kana imwe nguva yekutamba iri kufambira mberi zvakanaka, dzoka zvishomanana asi iwanikwe kana mumwe munhu achikuda. Kana vana vasina kutamba pamwechete, musanetseka. Parallel play - apo vana vanotarisana kune mumwe kunze vasingabatanidzi - zvakasikwa panguva ino.
Kukonana? Rega Vashandise
Kana mutsara unokwira, kunze kwekunge uine muviri, rega kubva pairi. Kurwisana kuduku hakuwanzoitiki nekupedzisira uye vana vachakwanisa kuzviita ivo voga. Kana kusabvumirana kuchikwira kune chimwe chinhu chakakosha, inguva yekupinda nayo. Tsanangura kuti rudzi rwekuzvibata harwunogamuchirwa uye runobatsira vana vachiuya nekubvumirana. Kana zvichidikanwa, uvaendese kune rimwe basa kana muhomwe.
Mugumo Wava Pedyo
Munenge maminitsi makumi maviri isati yatarwa kuti playdate ipedzwe kupera, regai vana vazive kuti ichava nguva yekuchenesa tsvina munguva pfupi. Uine miniti gumi yakasara, tanga kubvisa nzira. Kana zviziviso zvako zvakasangana nekusada, zvipe chimwe chinhu kutarisira mberi - "Zvinoratidzika sokuti iwe vaviri maiva nekunakidza kutamba-kupfeka-up. Zvichida nguva inotevera iwe unogona kuzvifananidzira kuva madzimambo. "Kana vachiri kukwezva tsoka dzavo, tanga tsvina yakachena-isa timer uye ona avo vanogona kutora zvidhori zvakanyanya. Asi ivai echokwadi - vana vekuchikoro vanogona chaizvo kubatsira kubvisa marara asi zvichida havazokwanisi kuzviita ivo pachavo.