Amai vanokurumidza kudzidza kuona kuchema kwevana vavo. Kune kuchema kwavanenge vane nzara , kuchema apo vasinganzwisisiki-kunyange imwe yevanotya.
Mumaawa mashomanana ekuva mubereki, unodzidza kusiyanisa pakati pemucheche akasiyana-siyana, uye inokubatsira kupindura zvakakodzera kutarisira mwana wako. Sezvinoitika, kune chikonzero chikonzero vanaamai vanodzidza kushandura kuchema kwomunhu mumwechete-nokuti badzi amai vanogadzirisa pane imwe nheyo inokosha mukupindura kuvana vavo.
Mukati maamai eBongo apo Mwana Anodana
Pakave nekudzidza kwakanyatsonakidza kwakaitwa pane zvinoitika muhupenzi hwevabereki apo mwana anochema. Kunyange zvazvo zvingaratidzika sechinhu chisina kujeka-mwana anodanidzira, amai vanopindura-imwe yedzidzo mu Journal of Neuroendocrinology inotsanangura ichokwadi kuti yakawanda inoshamisa yehuropi hunoita uye maitiro anoshanda anogadzira mhinduro.
Chidzidzo che2011 chakatsanangura kuti kune nzvimbo dzakasiyana dzeuropi dzinobatanidzwa kana mwana achingochema. Chidzidzo chacho chakatsanangura nzira yekuti utano hweamai huri "kuchinjwa" sei nekurira kwomwana ari kuchema. Vatsvakurudzi vari kuongorora vakafunga kuti kuchinja kwakasiyana-siyana kunowanzoitika muuropi hweamai kunotanga kutanga kuberekwa, panguva yekuzvitakura, uye kunowedzera kuwedzera kwe hormone dopamine, iyo inobatsira kugadzirira uropi hwake kubereki.
Hormonal Systems Iko Kunokosha
Kunze kubva ku dopamine, hormone oxytocin inobatsira zvikuru pakugadzirisa maitiro aamai pakupindura kuchema kwomwana wavo.
Chokutanga, kana mwana akaiswa pachipfuva, zvinokonzera oxytocin kuwedzera huropi hwake uye kukurudzira kubatana, kunzwira tsitsi, nemamwe mahomoni anonzwa "akanaka" anomubatsira kuti ave nehukama hwepedyo kumwana wake.
Mazhinji emahomoni aya anobatsirawo kutora chikamu mu "mubairo" wehurongwa, zvichida mafashamo ehutano hweamai nekunzwa-mahomoni akanaka mukupindura kutarisira mwana wavo.
Iyi ndiyo nzira yekusimbisa amai vanofarira kuchengeta mwana wavo!
Vose Amai Vakasiyana
Chidzidzo che2011 chakawanawo kuti pangava nekusiyana kwemahomoni ekubudiswa uye kutongwa pakati pevana. Semuenzaniso, vanaamai vakabereka pamuviri zvechokwadi vakaratidza humwe huropi hunozopindura kuchema kwevana vavo pavhiki 2-4 mushure mekunge vasati vasangana navanaamai vakabereka kuburikidza neC-chikamu. Chidzidzo chacho chakawanawo kuti vanaamai vaive vachiyamwisa vainyanya kuteerera pahuro hwehuropi kupfuura vanaamai vakange vachidya kudya; izvo hazvirevi kuti ivo vaiva "vakadzi" vakanaka, asi chete kuti pane zvishoma zvinyorwa zvakasiyana-siyana, zvichida zvakakosha pakugadzirwa kwekisi uye mutemo.
Uropi hwemamai hunofanidzawo-hunozvimirira pachake kuitira kuti inongopindura kumucheche kwomwana wake; iyo inotsanangura kuti sei amai vachigona kudzidza kuchema kwomwana wavo, asi kwete mwana wose muimba. Unogona here kufungidzira kuti chii chingaitika kana vanaamai vose kwose kwose vachigadzira kuchema kwevana vose? Ichokwadi kuti inenge ichinge ichinge yakanyanyisa pamusoro pehupi hwavo. Panzvimbo pokubvumira izvozvo kuti zviitike, hutano hweamai hunozonyanya kuchenesa kuchema kwevamwe vana kuti vazokwanisa kuisa pfungwa dzavo pachavo.
Zvimwe zvinhu, zvakadai sekuti amai vakambove vachinetseka muupenyu hwavo, sekutambudzika kana chirwere chepfungwa, zvingaita kuti vamwe vapindirwe nemirairo yehomoni uye uropi hwekuita.
Kunyange zvinhu zvakafanana namai avo vaiva nevana vakasiyana-siyana vakatarisira semucheche ivo pachavo vaibatanidza nekusateerera kuduku nemwana wavo.
'Amai Uropi' Ichokwadi
Chimwe chiitiko chazvino chiitiko che 2017 chichiitwa muProceedings of the National Academy of Sciences zvakare chakatsigira kuti kuchinja kunoitika muuropi muhuamai kune chaiye uye kuti zvinoitika kune vanaamai pasi rese. Kuchinja mumakumbo eamai kunoitika mukupindura mwana anochema kunochinja zvikamu zvehuropi hwake izvo zvinoita kuti iye aende uye ataure, kusarudza inzwi, uye kuva mutarisiri. Chaizvoizvo, vanomubatsira kuita zvinhu zvose zvinodiwa kutarisira kacheche.
Kuchinja muuropi kwakawanika kusiyana pakati pevakadzi vaive nevana kana vachienzaniswa nevaya vasina vana.
Shoko Rinobva Kunyanya
Kuchema kwomwana kunomiririra imwe yenzira dzokutanga iyo amai vanodzidza pamusoro pomwana wavo. Kuchema komwana inzira yekuratidza kune muchengeti wayo kuti inoda rudo uye kutarisirwa. Uye nokuti kuchema ndicho chigadziro checheche chete chekupona, uropi hwaamai hwevanhu hune mhinduro dzakananga uye hunoitika pakunzwa mwana wavo achichema. Mwana wako angangove achikuzivisa iwe kuti ane nzara, asi pamwero weuropi, pane zvakawanda zviri kuitika pane zvatingaona.
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