Vabereki vanowanzoshamiswa kuti mwana wavo achangoberekwa apedza kudzidza, kana kuti angangodaro akashaya chidzidzo chekutanga chekutanga.
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Kupedza Chikoro KumwanaKupedza Kudzidza?
Hongu, kupedza.
Mushure memavhiki mana, kana zuva 28 kuti rive rakanyatsojeka, mwana wako achangoberekwa anova "mwana".
Nevhiki ina yekuberekera mwana mutsva pasi pemabhanhire avo, vabereki vatsva vanogona kuona ichi sechimiro chekupedza kudzidza. Vanogona kunzwa sokuti vari kupedza kubva mumazuva apo pavakatanga kudzoka kumba kubva kuchipatara uye vangangodaro vaitya kuti "vachakoromora" mwana wavo nguva dzose pavanomutora. Mumwedzi wechipiri wemwana wavo, vabereki vakawanda vanonyanya kusununguka uye vane chivimbo mukukwanisa kwavo kutarisira mwana wavo.
Uye funga nezvekuwedzera kwekuti iwe uchava nechivimbo chei paunenge uchizopedza mwana wako - paanova muduku ...
Jedheni tsanangudzo yemakore uye zvikamu zvemwana zvinosanganisira:
- Mucheche kana kuti Neonate - kuberekwa kwemazuva makumi mana
- Mucheche - mwedzi 1 kusvika ku12
- Mwana wechidiki - 1 kusvika kumakore matatu
- Preschooler - makore matatu kusvika ku5
- Chikoro Chikoro - makore mashanu kusvika ku11
- Preteen kana Tween - makore 11 kusvika ku12
- Vechiduku - 13 uye vakuru
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Kuyamwisa mumwedzi wechipiriNdiwe chiremba wevana vako uye vehofisi vanotsigira kunwisa here?
Nezvose izvo zvinozivikanwa pamusoro pezvibereko zvekuyamwisa kwemaviri nemwana, unofanira kufunga "zvekare chiremba wangu achabatsira kutsigira."
Zvinosuruvarisa, izvo hazvisi nguva dzose. Uye kazhinji hazvirevi kuti vane chimwe chinhu chinorwisana nekuyamwisa, asi panzvimbo pacho, vanachiremba vezvechiremba uye vamwe vadzidzisi vehutano havana kungogamuchira dzidzo yakakwana kana kudzidziswa kuti vatsigire kunwisa.
Kunyangwe kunyamwa kungangove nyore nyore apo iwe unopinda mwedzi wechipiri wemwana wako, pangave nenguva iyo iwe unoda rubatsiro nekusigirwa kuti urambe uchiyamwisa mwana wako chero nguva iwe wose iwe uchida.
Saka unoziva sei kana iwe chiremba uri kutsigira kunwisa? Imwe nzira yakanaka yekuudza ndeyokuti, kana chiratidzo chekutanga chekuti une matambudziko ekuyamwisa, chiremba wevana vako haasi kungokurudzira kubatsiridza nehombodo, kuchinjira kumushonga , kana "kungoramba uchiedza."
Mukuwedzera pakuva nevana vezvechirwere chinotsigira kuyamwisa, unogona kuwedzera mikana yako yekuyamwisa nekubudirira nekudzidza zvakanyanya sezvaunokwanisa pamusoro pekuyamwisa uye zvinogona kuvepa zvinetso zvekuyamwisa zvingauya. Iko kune mabhuku akawanda akanaka kwazvo pamusoro pekuyamwisa kuti unofanira kufunga kuverenga, zvakadai seThe Nursing Mother's Companion naKatrina Huggins.
Kuva nekuyamwisa kushandiswa kwenzvimbo munzvimbo kunobatsirawo. Mukuwedzera kune chiremba wevana vanobatsira, izvi zvinogona kusanganisira mudzidzisi wea lactation kana nyanzvi yeavoctation, ane nhamba yefoni yaunogona kuchengeta nekunyoresa kwenhamba dzenjodzi. Nhengo dzemhuri neshamwari dzakaberekwa nemazamu ndezvimwe zvakakosha zvinotsigirwa.
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Fomu YokudyaNevhiki vashanu, vabereki vanowanzogadzirisa pane chimwe chimiro chemhando. Chinhu chikuru chinoshanduka iye zvino ndechekuti mwana wako anodya zvakadini panguva imwe neimwe yekudya uye zuva rimwe nerimwe.
Kunyange zvazvo vabereki, kunyanya vabereki venguva yekutanga, kazhinji semitemo chaiyo yekuwanda kwekudyisa mwana wavo, iko chaizvoizvo hakuna hukuru-hunokodzera-mitemo yose yekupa mwana. Kusiyana nekuyamwisa vana, avo vanongomwisa zvishoma kuti vawedzere kuwedzera kwekugadzirwa kwechifuva, iwe unonyanya kutarisana nemafungiro emwana wako zvinwiwa.
Saka unogona sei kuudza kuti ungadya sei mwana wako uye nguva ipi yekumupa? Iwe unongoda kungoona kuti mwana wako akagutsikana sei uye kuwedzerwa kudyidzana kwake paunoona kuti angada zvimwe, zvakadai sokuti:
- Anokurumidza kupedza bhodhoro uye anoita kunge ari kutsvaga zvimwe
- Zvinoratidzika sekuti ari kuda kudya kakawanda, semawa maviri oga oga, paakanga achidya maawa matatu oga oga
- Anotanga kumuka kakawanda usiku kuti adye
- Haasi kutora kuwanda zvakanaka
Zvinyorwa Zvitsva Zvokufambisa
IAmerican Academy of Pediatrics, mubhuku rinonzi Your Baby's First Year , inotaura kuti "vana vakawanda vanogutsikana neawa 3 kusvika ku4 maawa ekudyisa mumwedzi wokutanga, uye kuwedzera iyo inokwana 1 ounce pamwedzi kusvika kusvika maawa masere."
Kunyange zvazvo isiri kutonga kwakakwana, semutungamiri mukuru, izvo zvinoreva kuti mwana aizomwa madhora anenge 4 kusvika ku5 kuburikidza nekudyisa mumwedzi wechipiri. Uye vana vakawanda vari kudya kwemaawa matatu kusvika ku4, pamwe zvichida imwe nguva yakareba 4 kusvika kuawa matanhatu panguva yeusiku pavanorara.
Iva nechokwadi chekutaura nevana vako kana mwana wako ari kunwa zvakanyanya kana zvishoma kudarika iyo yakawanda ye-formula - anenge masikati 24 kusvika ku 32 pazuva.
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Kukura uye Kukura Kwevhiki VhikiVabereki vanowanzobvunza kuti kana mwana wavo ari kukura zvakanaka.
Kunyora zviyero zvinogara zvichienderana nekukwirira kwemwana wako, kuyerwa, uye mutsetse wepamusoro paunoshanyira kuchipatara chevana uye uchivagadzirira pamatanho ekukura ndewe nzira yakanaka yekuona kana mwana wako achikura zvakanyanya .
Zvinosuruvarisa kuti, vamwe vabereki vanotanga kunetseka nekutambudzika kuti mwana wavo muduku kana kuti pedyo nechezasi kwekuraira chati. Yeuka kuti iyo mwana wekukura kwako ndiyo inonyanya kukosha yekufungisisa kana uchitarisisa kana mwana wako ari kukura uye achikudziridza kazhinji uye kwete kwaanenge ari pachikwata chekura. Kana mwana wako ari kutevera kukura kwake, ipapo angave achikura zvakanaka.
Saka unogona kutarisira kuti mwana wako awedzere sei panguva ino?
Zvose zvinotungamirirwa nekukura kwevana vako zvinosanganisira:
- Kuwana anenge 1 1/2 kusvika 2 pounds pamwedzi
- Kukura anenge masentimita 25 (25 cm) pakati penguva yaakaberekerwa uye ane mwedzi gumi nembiri
- Kuva nomutsetse wepamusoro unowedzera anenge 2 masentimita pamwedzi
Yeuka kuti izvi ndezvenzira dzakawanda asi. Mwana wako anogona kukura zvishoma kana zvishomanana kupfuura izvi gore negore. Kana uchinetseka pamusoro pokukura kwevana vako, kunyanya kana iwe uchifunga kuti anokundikana kukura (kushaya urombo pfuma) kana kuti nguva shoma (kukurira kukura pakakwirira), iva nechokwadi chokuti utaure nevana vako.
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Baby Car SeatsIAmerican Academy of Pediatrics inotaura kuti chigaro chakanakisisa chemotokari yemwana "ndicho chinokodzera kukura kwevana vako, chakanyatsogadziriswa, uye chinoshandiswa zvakanaka nguva dzose kana iwe uchityaira."
Uine mwana wemavhiki mashanu, izvo zvinoreva kuti iwe unofanira:
- Verengai mirairo yemotokari zvakanyatsonaka kuti uone kuti iwe wakagadza uye uri kuishandisa nenzira yakarurama
- Shandisai chigaro checheche-chega bedzi (icho chine detachable carrier) kana chigaro chinotarisana chinotarisa chitoro
- Isa mwana wako akatarisana nechepamusoro pechigaro chemashure chemotokari yako uye usamboisa mwana wako pachigaro chepamberi chemotokari nemunhu anotakura airbag
- Isai mabhanhire eLATCH kana bhandi rechigaro kumubhedha wemotokari zvakasimba
- Iva nechokwadi chokuti chigaro chemotokari chakakoromoka panzvimbo yakakodzera, izvo zvingada kuti iwe uise imwe pombi yepamusoro pasi pechigaro chechigaro chemotokari
- Ita kuti chokwadi chidimbu chinosungirirwa chikafu kana iwe ukasunga mwana wako muchigaro chemotokari uye kuti plastiki harness chikamu chiri pamushonga wake uye kwete pasi
Uye yeuka kuti maererano nemitemo yepamusoro yepamusoro yemotokari , vana vaduku nevana vaduku vanofanira kukwira muchitsiko chemotokari chakatarisana necheche (mwana-ari oga ari kutarisana nechigaro chemotokari kana chigaro chinotarisana nechekare chinotarisa) kusvikira vava nemakore maviri kana kusvika vasvika kurema uye kukwirira kwemiganhu yechigaro chavo chemotokari.
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Shaken Baby SyndromeUsambozunungusa mwana!
Izvozvo zvinoratidzika seimwe yezvinhu izvo izvo zvinofanira kunge zvichikwanisa kuenda pasina kutaura.
Zvinosuruvarisa, havasi vose vanoziva nezvehungwaru hwekuzunungusa mwana. Nhamba kubva kuNational Center paShaken Baby Syndrome inoratidza kuti gore rose muUnited States:
- Vana vanenge 1 200 kusvika ku1 400 vanodedera
- 25 kusvika ku30% yevana vanozununguka vanofa
- Vakapukunyuka vanozununguswa baby syndrome vanowanzova nezvinetso zvoupenyu hwose, kusanganisira kuora kwehupi uye hupofu
- Vakawanda vana vakawanda vangave vasingazivikanwi vanoputirwa nevana baby syndrome asi havawanikwi nokuti hapana kushungurudzika kwekunze, sekupwanya, kunoonekwa
Shaken Baby Syndrome
Shaken baby syndrome inowanikwa apo mwana ari kuzununguswa nekutsamwa, zvichiita kubuda ropa muuropi. Zvimwe zvinokuvadza zvinowanzobatanidza kubuda ropa mune retina yeziso, gumbo remumutsipa uye kukuvara kwemutsipa, uye nhengo dzomukati.
Zviratidzo zvekuzununguka mwana syndrome zvinowanzobatanidza kukanganisa kwakanyanya, kudya kwakashata, kurutsa, kugumburwa, uye mwana angave akarara zvakanyanya kudarika nguva dzose kana zvakaoma kumuka (lethargic).
Iwe unofanirwa kutsvaga kurapwa nokukurumidza kana iwe uchifunga kuti mwana wako angangodaro akabatwa nekutinhira mwana syndrome.
Shaken Baby Syndrome Victims
Kuti ubatsire kudzivirirwa mwana syndrome, zvakakosha kudzidzisa vana vese vevana vako kuti havafaniri kumbozunungusa mwana.
Vabereki vanowanzofunga kuti vana vaduku nevana vaduku vanogona kutambura nekutinhira kwevana baby syndrome. Zvakakosha kuziva kuti kunyange vana kusvika pamakore maviri kusvika mashanu vanogona kutambudzika nekuzununguswa mwana syndrome kana vakazununguka.
Izvo zvinoita kuti zvive zvakakosha kuzviyeuchidza iwe, wako wega, zvimwe zvakakosha, nhengo dzemhuri, shamwari, vanun'una, uye vamwe vapi vevanotarisira kuti havafaniri kuzunungusa mwana wenyu.
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Kupamba MwanaUnogona kuparadza mwana here?
Nenzira yakanaka, nyanzvi dzakawanda dzinofunga kuti haugone kuparadza mwana.
Aya ndiwo mashoko akanaka kune vose vabereki vari kuwana kuti nzira yega yekunyaradza mwana wavo ikozvino ndeyekutakura kungovatakudza.
Kunyanya mwana wako nguva dzose pavanenge vachichema zvingangoita kuti uwane mhinduro dzisina kunaka kubva kune shamwari shomanana uye nhengo dzemhuri, zvakadaro. Vanhu ava vari kutevera maitiro e "kare-chikoro" ekuberekera vana vane chivimbo vasingawanikwe. Vanowanzobvuma kuti kana iwe nguva dzose uchingotora mwana wako ari kuchema, iwe uchavaparadza.
IAmerican Academy of Pediatrics, mubhuku ravo Rako Rokutanga rweMwana , inopa mazano akanaka panyaya iyi:
Nzira yakanakisisa yokubata nayo kuchema ndeyokupindura nokukurumidza kumucheche wako pose paanochema mumwedzi yake yokutanga. Iwe haugone kuparadza mwana muduku nekumupa iye kutarisa; uye kana iwe ukapindura kudana kwake kukumbira rubatsiro, iye achachema zvishoma pasi rose.
Slings, Wraps, uye Carriers
Kunyange kana zvisingatongoparadzi mwana wako, zvingava zvakaoma kuti chero chinhu chipi zvacho chiite kana iwe uchigara wakabata mwana wako.
Iwe unogona kubata mwana wako pedyo newe, ramba wakanyaradzwa uye akadzikama, uye chengetedza maoko ako vakasununguka nekushandisa mwana anotakura kana kuti kunyengera .
Mifananidzo yakakurumbira inosanganisira:
- Maya Wrap Sling
- Baby Bjorn Carrier
- Moby Wrap Baby Carrier
- Evenflo Snugli Comfort Vent Soft Carrier
Iwe unoshandisa kuvhara kana mutakuri here? Icho chiri chakanaka iwe pachako, zvose iwe nevana vako, asi zvinogona kuva pfungwa yakanaka yekuwana imwe kana imwe.
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Vhiki Yechishanu Kuita ZitaKunyangwe iwe unogona kunzwa uine chivimbo pamusoro pokutora mwana wako wevhiki-vashanu, kuchine zvakawanda zvokugadzirisa.
Kudyisa mwana wako, kuchinja mahara, kumunyaradza apo ari kuchema, nezvimwewo, vose vanogona kutora nguva yakawanda. Kushandisa nguva yakawanda kuchengetedza mwana wako kunogona kuita kuti zvive nyore kutarisa zvinhu zvinogona kuchengetedza mwana wako akachengeteka uye ane utano hwakadai se:
- Kana usati waita zvakadaro, sarudza nguva yako neanachiremba wevana kumwana wako mwedzi miviri chechechecheche chekuchechechechechedza mwana.
- Iva nechokwadi chokuti imba yako yakanaka zvakanaka vana vanofanirwa kuitira kuti mwana wako akachengetedze.
- Dana mwana wako wevana kana kutsvaga kurapwa kana mwana wako ane fivha, iyo inowanzofungidzirwa kuva inotonhora iri pane kana kupfuura 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit.
- Ramba uchiisa mwana wako kurara pamusana wake kuti aderedze njodzi yeSIDS.
- Kusvikira simba rako rekudzivirirwa nemwana risina simba kana ava nemwedzi mishomanana akwegura uye ave ane zvimwe zvekudzivirira kwake, edza kudzivisa kumuisa kune vakawanda. Izvi zvinogona kumubatsira kuti asapinda mavhairusi akafanana uye arambe achirwara.
- Rambai muchiisa mwana wenyu muchigaro chinotarisana nemotokari muchigaro chemugumo wemotokari yenyu. Dzidza kudzivisa zvikanganiso zvezvigaro zvepamusoro yemotokari , zvakadai sekuisa harness chest clip munzvimbo isina kunaka.
- Tarisa nokuda kwezviratidzo zvekupera kwepfungwa , kusanganisira vanaamai vanonzwa vakasuruvara, vanozvidya mwoyo, vachitya, kana kuvhiringidzika, nezvimwewo.
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Baby Ear Ear PiercingKunyange zvazvo vamwe vabereki vanoda kufanana nenzeve dzevana vavo vachibayiwa nokukurumidza, American Academy of Pediatrics inokurudzira kuti iwe "udzoke mberi kurohwa kusvikira mwana wako akura zvakakwana kuti atarisire nzvimbo yakaroorwa iye pachake."
Izvi zvinogona kubatsira kudzivisa zvimwe zvezvipingamupinyi zvekuchera nzeve dzevana, kusanganisira:
- hutachiwana - vaduku vacheche vane maitiro ekudzivirira zvirwere zvemazuva mashoma, saka vangave vasingakwanisi kurwisa utachiona panzvimbo yekurohwa zvakanaka kwazvo.
- choking hazard - kana vakawana mhete.
- zvinokonzerwa nemagetsi - kune zvishandisi mumakona (kunyanya nickel negoridhe) yaanopfeka, asi izvo zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuona kubvira apo vacheche vanowanzochera nzeve dzavo.
- akavhara mhete - izvi zvinoitika kana chikamu chimwe chemhete chinopinda mukati megomba uye chinopindirwa mukati. Kunyange izvi zvingaitika kune imwe nguva, zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kubvisa kubva pamucheche.
Njodzi dzakakura zvakadini? Zvichida zvakanyanya zviduku, asi kubvira pakubvoora nzeve dzevana zvinowanzova nzira yekuzora iyo inogona kuiswa kune imwe nguva yakachengeteka, pane chikonzero chiduku chekutora iyo kunyange dambudziko duku.
Baby Ear Ear Piercing
Kana iwe ukasarudza kuti nzeve dzemwana wako dzibvunzwe, edza kumirira kusvikira ava nemwedzi miviri kana mitatu yakwegura, iyo ndiyo iyo inofanira kunge yakwegura yakakwana yekubata zvirwere zvishoma uye inenge ichinge yakawana rimwe rakatenderera rwezvirwere.
Uyewo funga kuwana mhete nekivha kana kuti kuvhara-kumashure akaitwa nesimbi inoshandiswa (kuderedza mararamiro ezvegorosi), izvo zvingabatsira kuderedza mikana yemwana wako yekukwevera mhete kubva uye kumedza kana kumira. Uye sarudza nzvimbo iyo inoshandisa zviyero zvisina kuchena uye ine ruzivo rwekurwadza nzeve dzevana, zvakadai sehofisi yevana vako.
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> AAP. Kutarisira Chikoro Chako-Mudiki: Makore 5 kusvika ku12.
> American Academy of Pediatrics. Car Safety Seats: Mutungamiri weMhuri 2011.
> Zvinetso zvekugadzira muviri. Meltzer DI - Am Fam Physician - 15-NOV-2005; 72 (10): 2029-34.
> The National Center pamusoro pekuzununguka Baby Syndrome.
> National Institutes of Health. Shaken Baby Syndrome Information Page.