Zvakakosha kudzidzisa mwana wako nezvezvinhu zvakadai sezara nenzara
Urombo chinhu chakaoma kunzwisisa chinogona kubva kune zvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana zvakaoma zvikuru kuvana vaduku kunzwisisa. Asi kunyange nyaya dzakapoteredza nzara uye dzisina dzimba dzakaoma, zvinokosha kutaura nevana nezvehurombo.
Kana iwe uri mubereki uyo asingawanzozvidya mwoyo nekuisa zvokudya patafura kana kuva nenzvimbo yakasununguka kuti mwana wako aende kunorara, kuvhara maoko ako kumativi ehurukuro iyi kunogona kunge kwakaoma.
Asi pasina tsanangudzo yakajeka, vana vangave vasinganzwisisi kuti sei vamwe vana vachiwana kudya kwemazuva mashoma kuchikoro kana kuti nei kune munhu asina pokugara achikumbira mari. Uye vanogona kuita mafungiro asina kururama pamusoro pevanhu vari kurarama pasi peurombo huno ..
Chikonzero Nei Uchifanira Kutaura Neurombo
Pane imwe nguva, mwana wako achaona kuti vamwe vanhu havana mari yakawanda sevamwe, uye anogona kunge ane mibvunzo pamusoro payo. Zvinofungidzirwa kuti mumwe wevana vashanu muUnited States anorarama muurombo. Vakawanda vevana ivavo vari kushanda nevabereki, asi mari shoma uye basa rakaoma vanovasiya vachirarama pasi peurombo. Pane chiitiko chakanaka vamwe vevana vaunodzidza navo kuchikoro vachirwisana nezvinhu zvakadai sekusachengeteka kwekudya uye kusagadzikana.
Unogona kuedzwa kuudza mwana wako, "Idya broccoli yako. Kune dzimwe nzara vana mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzenyika dzinoda kuda kudya izvozvo. "Asi kutaura pamusoro pevanhu vanogara mune rimwe kondinendi kunogona kuva kure kure nenyika yenyika yako kuti iye anzwisise.
Kune vanhu vazhinji vanorwisana nourombo zvikuru pedyo neimba. Kutaura nezvechokwadi-mamiriro ezvinhu emunharaunda yako zvinogona kumubatsira kunzwisisa zviri nani urombo.
Vana vanorarama muurombo vanogona kuwana zvinetso zveupenyu hwavo hwose. Urombo hunobata mhuri nenzira dzinotevera:
- Zvinetso zvekudzidzisa - Vana vanorarama muurombo vane dambudziko rakawanda kudzidza uye havakwanisi kupfuurira mberi kwavo dzidzo.
- Zvinetso zvekuita - Urombo hunobata hutano hwehutano hwemagariro evanhu. Vana vanokura muurombo vane mikana yekuratidzira zvinetso zvetsika .
- Matambudziko ehutano hwehutano - Urombo hwevana hunobatanidzwa nehupamhi hwehutachiona hwehutachiona, hutano hwakanyanya, matambudziko ekuvandudza mutauro , uye njodzi yakawanda yekukuvara.
- Matambudziko ehutano hwepfungwa - Dambudziko rinokonzerwa nehurombo rinowedzera dambudziko rehutano hwepfungwa dzakawanda.
- Yakaderedza hupenyu hune humwe humwe - Dzidzo dzinoratidza urombo ndihwo hutsva hukuru hwehupenyu hwevana uye hunogona kuva nemigumisiro yeupenyu hwose.
Kubata hurukuro pamusoro pehurombo kunogona kuva mukana wekudzidzisa mwana wako pamwe nenguva yekukurudzira tsitsi kune vamwe. Apo mwana wako anonzwisisa zvishoma nezvekuti sei vamwe vanhu vachirarama zvakasiyana, anogona kunge ane tsitsi huru kune vanhu vane urombo.
Tarisa Mikana Yekutaura Nyaya
Panzvimbo pokuunza nyaya yerombo kubva kunze kwebhuruu, tsvaga mikana yekuiunza iyo zvakasikwa. Ipapo, iwe unogona kutaura pamusoro pazvo zvakanyanya.
Apo pane chirongwa chokuonga chokudya chekuchikoro, taura nemwana wako nezvekuti nei uri kugovera zvinhu zvekugadzirira. Kana, kana pane chipo chinotungamira pamazororo, tsanangura kuti dzimwe mhuri dzingasava nemari yakakwana yekuzvitenga zvipo.
Iva Wakagadzirira Matambudziko Mibvunzo
Pane imwe nguva, mwana wako achaona kuti vezera rake kana vanhu vari munharaunda vari kurarama muurombo. Iva wakagadzirira mibvunzo yakadai seyi:
- Sei Anna achipfeka mbatya imwechete kuchikoro zuva nezuva?
- Sei mukadzi iyeye ari kukumbira vanhu mari?
- Sei murume iyeye asina kupfeka shangu?
- Nei Zack achiti anowana kudya kwemazuva mashoma kuchikoro?
Apo mwana wako akabvunza mibvunzo, chiratidzo chokuti akagadzirira kuwana mamwe mashoko. Zvakakosha kumubatsira kuti ave nemakore akakodzera mhinduro.
Ipai Tsanangudzo Dzakadzika kuElementary School Children
Vana havanzwisisi mari kana mari. Kuita zvekutengesa pamusoro pevana vane nzara kunogona kukurudzira mibvunzo isina mhosva yakadai, "Sei vabereki vavo vasingaendi kuchitoro uye vachivatenga zvimwe zvokudya?"
Pakati pemakore mashanu ne8, vana vakagadzirira kudzidza zvinotsanangurwa pamusoro peurombo. Edza kutaura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Vamwe vanhu havagoni kuwana mari yakakwana yekutenga zvokudya kana imba yekugara."
Panguva ino haufaniri kupa tsanangudzo refu pamusoro pezvikonzero zvinogona kudzivirira mumwe munhu kuti awane mubairo unobhadharwa. Kukurukurirana pamusoro pekuremara, kushandisa zvinodhaka, uye hupfumi hupfumi hunogona kumirira kusvika pakati kana makore ekuyaruka.
Taura neTweens uye Vechidiki Pamusoro pezvinokonzera Zvinokonzera
Tweens uye vechidiki vanogona kutanga kunzwisisa zvimwe zvikonzero nei urombo huripo. Taura nezvezvinhu zvinoita kuti urombo, zvakadai se:
- Pakati pekuwana mari pakati pevapfumi nevarombo
- Kushaya kwemabasa anobhadhara mubayiro wakakwana
- Kusina dzidzo
- Kunyanya mari yehutano uye kuchengetwa kwevana
- Kushandisa zvinodhaka uye chirwere chepfungwa
- Kuremara
- Kurambana
- Urombo hupfumi
Mukuwedzera pakutaura pamusoro pezvinokonzera urombo, kurukura nezvemigumisiro. Ipa tsanangudzo yakajeka yehupfumi huri hurumende uye zvigadziriswa zvinowanikwa panzvimbo kubatsira vanhu, asi zvakare kutaura pamusoro pekuoma kwakaita sei kuti vanhu vabve muurombo.
Chengetedza Mharidzo Yaunotumira
Zvinhu zvaunoita, pamwe nezvimwe zvausingaiti, zvinotumira mwana wako mashoko pamusoro pevanhu vanogara varombo. Somuenzaniso, kana iwe uchifamba kupfuura panhandler usina kutarisa maziso, mwana wako anogona kutora vanhu vasina pokugara vari pasi pako, saka zvakakosha kutsanangura kuti nei usingaiti kune vanhu vasingazivi mumugwagwa mari.
Taura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Handisi kupa vanhu mari nokuti ini handizivi kuti vachaipedza sei. Asi ini ndinogona kuvatengera zvimwe zvokudya dzimwe nguva. "Kana, tsanangura kuti iwe unopa mari kumapurogiramu anobatsira vanhu vasina misha vane zvokudya zvekudya uye pokugara kuti vagare.
Zvakakoshawo kudzivisa kutumira shoko rinoreva basa rakaoma nguva dzose rinodzivirira urombo. Kana iwe uchitaura zvinhu zvakadai, "Ndinoshanda zvakaoma kuitira kuti tigone kugara muimba yakanaka," mwana wako angagumisa vanhu vari varombo vanofanira kunge vane usimbe.
Tora Mwana Wako Anobatanidzwa Mukubatsira
Kupa mari kune rudo kunogona kudzidzisa mwana wako zvakawanda nezvekubatsira vamwe. Asi, kumubatanidza wekutanga-kubatsira vanhu vari kushaiwa kunogona kumubatsira kuwana ruzivo rwakanakisisa rwekuti angakwanise sei kupedza urombo.
Ita kuti mwana wako atore pamwe nekupa zvimwe zvezvidhori zvake kana zvipfeko zvisina kushandiswa kune vamwe. Kumbira kuti asarudze zvinhu zvipi zvaanopa uye ataure nezvekuti ingabatsira sei vamwe vana vane vabereki vasingagoni kutenga zvidhi kana zvipfeko. Uya nemwana wako newe kuchitoro kunotenga zvokudya zvekudya. Kumbira kuti asarudze zvigadzirwa zvemakwenzi kana zvakaoma zvaungapa mhuri dzisingakwanisi kutenga zvokudya.
Apo mwana wako achiona kuti anogona kutora matanho ekuita mutsauko, anogona kunzwa akafuridzirwa kuita mamwe mabasa omutsa mune ramangwana.
Kurukurai Mavharopu Aunayo
Kutaura pamusoro pehurombo kunogona kukonzera mwana wako kuti asanyanya kuzvidya mwoyo. Anogona kunetseka kuti iwe uchapedza zvokudya kana kuti iwe ungave usina pokugara pane rimwe zuva. Saka zvakakosha kutaura pamusoro pekuchengetedzwa kupi zvako kwaunogona kuva nawo.
Kana uine shamwari kana hama iyo inogona kukubatsira kana iwe wakanga uri pasi muhombe yako, taura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Tinogona kugara naMbuya kana tisina imba yedu pachedu." Kana tsanangura kuti kune hurongwa hwehurumende huripo iyo inobatsira vanhu vasingakwanisi kutenga zvokudya.
Zvechokwadi, semunhu mukuru, unoziva kuti kunyange zvipfeko zvakanakisisa hazvina maturo. Iwe unogona kusambofanira kutarisana nekashandura mumhanho inobva mumhuri yako mukuda kukuru, asi isu tose tinotarisana nemukana uyu.
Chinhu chakanakisisa chaunogona kuitira vana vako chinovavimbisa kuti iwe unogara uripo kuti ude uye uvadzivirire uye, pasinei nokuti mamiriro ako ezvinhu anokutora iwe, iwe unogara uchida. Kugoverana chero chinhu chinopfuura izvozvo, zvikurukuru nevana vaduku, vangave vakawandisa kuti vaite.
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