Vabereki vanotambudzika kubhadhara rubatsiro rwevana-kana avo vane chikwereti chakakosha chekutsigira vana-kazhinji vane mibvunzo yakakodzera pamusoro pedambudziko rekubatsira kwevana. Somuenzaniso, ungangodaro unetseka: Kubatsirwa kwevana kunogona kuchinjwa here? Kana zvakadaro, sei? Uye pasi pemamiriro api? Zvine basa here kuti mubereki anokumbira chii? Kana iwe uchitambudzwa nemhando dzemibvunzo iyi, heyi ndiyo rubatsiro rwekutsigira rutsigiro rwemwana waunoda.
Nguva Yekukumbira Kubatsirwa kwevana Kuchinja
Kazhinji, matare achangotarisa kugadziriswa kwebatsiro rwevana kana pane kuchinja kukuru kune mari yemubhadharo kana kudiwa kwevana. Kana iwe uri mubereki ane chikwereti chekusimbisa vana, iwe unogona kuonekwa uchikwanisa kubatsiridzirwa kushandiswa kwevana shure kwekurasikirwa nebasa kana kuchinja mune mari. Kune rumwe rutivi, kana iwe uri mubereki anogamuchira rubatsiro rwevana panzvimbo yemwana wako, unogona kunge wakakodzerwa nekugadziriswa kwebatsiro rwevana kana mari yevana vako yekudzidzisa kana mari yepamusoro yehutano yakakwira zvikuru mumwedzi yapfuura.
Iva nekurudzirwa, zvisinei, kuti vamwe vanoti vanoisa muganhu wekuti vangangodzokorora sei zvipo zvekutsigira vana. Semuenzaniso, vangangodzokorora zvikumbiro zvekushandurwa kwemhosva imwe neimwe mwedzi yese nemwedzi makumi maviri nemana. Saka kana vakashandura rubatsiro rwemwana wenyu mwedzi gumi nemana yapfuura, izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe unofanira kumirira mamwe mwedzi mitanhatu usati waisa chikumbiro chako chekugadzirisa.
Mazano Okuchengetedza Vabereki
Kana iwe uri mubereki wokuchengetedza, iwe unofanirwa kukumbira kushandiswa kwekutsigirwa kwemwana kana iwe uchitenda kuti mari yako yekare yakawedzera zvakanyanya sezvo urongwa hwacho hwakatanga kana kuti kwave kune kuwedzerwa kukuru mune zvido zvemari zvemwana wako (semuenzaniso, zvichienderana chirwere chezvehutano kana mamwe mamiriro asingatarisirwi).
Ngwarira kuti urege kukumbira mwana kutsigirwa kushandiswa nokuda kwezvikonzero izvo dare ringarangarira risina basa, kunyanya kana hutongi hwako huchikwanisa kuwedzerwa nguva dzekuchinja kuongororwa. Iwe hausi kuda kupopota chikumbiro che 'makore matatu-makore' kuchinjwa pane yako yekare kusinganzwisisiki mari-yekurarama inokurudzira chete kuti uwane kuti mwedzi gumi nembiri pasi pemugwagwa wedzidzo yemwana wako kana mari yezvechiremba zvisingatarisirwi zvichikwira.
Mazano Okusava Kurambidza Vabereki
Kana iwe uri mubereki asina kuchengetedza kubhadhara rubatsiro rwevana, unofanira kungokumbira kubatsiridzirwa kwevabereki kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchingowanikwa mune mari. Iwe unofanirwa kuziva kubva pakutanga kuti matare achaongorora chikumbiro chako zvakakwana, uye achaenzanisa mari yako yazvino kumari yawakagamuchira apo mwana wepakutanga kutsigira chirongwa chakatangwa. Kana musiyano uri pakati pezvisungo zviviri haisi izvo iyo dare rinotora 'guru,' chikumbiro chako chichave chakarambidzwa.
Nzira yekukumbira kubatsirwa kwevana
Kana wagara wakagadzirira kuisa chikumbiro chako, unofanirwa kuenderera kune Child Child Enforcement Office muhurumende umo chirongwa chechipiri chekutsigira mwana chakabudiswa. Paunenge uchitaura nehurumende, iwe uchada kufambisa chikumbiro chakakumbirwa chikukumbira kuchinjwa nekuda kwekuchinja mumamiriro ezvinhu.