Kurasikirwa kwepamuviri ndeye, zvinosuruvarisa, zvakajairika kupfuura vanhu vakawanda vanoziva. Anoshandira ane vashandi vechikadzi angave achifanira kubata nemamiriro ezvinhu pane imwe nguva. Uye usakanganwa kuti kunyange varume vanogona kuve nekuvhiringidzwa nekurasikirwa kweshamwari.
Kana umwe wevashandi vako ane chirwere chepamuviri kana kuberekwa, pasina mubvunzo achada nguva yekusiya basa. Chiremba wake achaona nguva yakawanda yaanoda inotarisana nemamiriro ehupenyu hwake.
Kakawanda, vakadzi vane chirwere chepamuviri chekutanga vanogona kudzokera kubasa mushure memazuva mashoma, kana vhiki. Gare gare pakuberekwa, kurasikirwa kunogona kutora nguva yakareba yekusiya.
Edza kuva nemafungiro akajeka pamusoro pekuenda kwake; urefu hunogona kunge husiri pasi pekutonga kwake. Yeuka, mushandi wepanyama kana wekutambudzika anenge asingakwanise kuita basa rake nekubudirira.
Kurasikirwa pamuviri inonyanya kukosha. Vamwe vakadzi vachakurumidze kudzoka, uye vanoita sevasingatambudzi apo vamwe vachada nguva yakawanda yekuchema. Ikoko hakuna nzira yakarurama kana isina kururama yekugadzirisa nekurasikirwa pamuviri. Mushandi wako ndiye achava mutongi akakodzera wekugona kwake kuita basa rake nekubudirira. Zvakanaka kumubvunza kuti chii chaanogona uye chinoramba chichikumbira, chero bedzi iwe uchiedza kuramba uchifunga.
Mushandi Anogona Kubata Sei Vashandirwi Vokurera Kuberekwa
Imwe nzira yekuongorora kuti mushandi wako ari kutarisana sei nekuita hurukuro yekudzorera. Hazvirevi kuti zvive zvakarongeka kana kunyange mumunhu, asi kukurukurirana kwakatsaurirwa pamusoro pezvakaitika kwaari uye mafungiro ake apo iye anodzokera kubasa zvinogona kukuchengetedza iwe zvose zvisinganzwisisi uye kuvhiringidzika.
Mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu apo mushandi anofamba nedambudziko rake, muvakidzani akanaka anochengetedza mitsetse yekukurukurirana yakazaruka. Kwete izvi chete ndizvo zvakakodzera kuita, zvinokurudzira pfungwa yekuvimbika kana vashandi vanoratidzwa netsitsi munguva yekutambudzika. Mazano mashoma ekubata mamiriro ezvinhu aya:
- Gamuchira kurasikirwa kwake. A nyore "Ndine urombo nokuda kwekurasikirwa kwako" inogona kuenda kure. Kana iwe uine hukama hwakanaka, unogona kufunga kubvunza kana achida kutaura pamusoro pezvaanoona . Iva wakagadzirira kuti ataure "kwete," uye usamanikidza dambudziko racho.
- Vimbisa chivande. Iwe unotoziva kuti iwe haugone kugovana ruzivo rwemunhu nevamwe kune vashandi, asi inguva yakanaka yekuyeuchidza mukadzi uyo akatambura kupererwa kwepamba kuti chero chinhu chaanotaura chichagara chiri voga uye kuti haafaniri kugoverana chero ruzivo kune avo vaanoshanda navo kunze kwekuti achida to.
- Kurukurai nguva yekutarisira mune ramangwana Vamwe vakadzi vanoedza kuwedzera kuongororwa mushure mokurasikirwa pamuviri kuti vaone hutano huchauya uye kutora pamuviri kune ngozi.
Kana basa romushandi wako richibvumira, angakwanisa kudzoka kubasa nekukurumidza nekanguva yekudzoka. Pasinei nokuti izvi zvinoreva kushanda kubva kumba, kana nguva yega pahofisi, simba rake remuviri nepfungwa rinogona kubatsirwa nekutanga zvishoma.
Haasi mabasa ose achabvumira urongwa uhwu, hongu, asi kana mushandi wako achiita seanotambudza naye kudzoka, angabatsirwa kubva pane imwe shanduro yakagadziriswa.
Kushungurudzika kwakakosha, chikamu cheutano hwehupenyu hwevanhu. Mushandi wako achava nemazuva akanaka uye akaipa, uye izvi zvinofanira kutarisirwa.
Iva nechokwadi kuti ane sarudzo yekutsvaga rubatsiro rwemhizha kana akafunga kuti anoda, asi ruremekedze iye oga.