Pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvinoshamisa pamusoro pekuwanda kwemhuri. Imwe yezvinonyanya kunakidza ndiyo "yakavakwa mubuddy" chikonzero. Kune dzakawanda nguva apo kuva nemukomana wezera rimwe chete ibatsiro, kwete nekuda kwemaana pachavo, asiwo kuvabereki vavo.
Kubatsira
Kubvira pakutanga, mababa angu mapatya akafambidzana seshamwari dzevakomana.
Ndinofara kuti ndinovayeuka semwedzi mitanhatu yemakore, ndichidzidza kudzigara ndoga. Vaizogara pasi, vachitarisana, nebhokisi revana vacheche pakati pavo. Zvaiva mufaro kuvatarisa sezvavakanga vachipfuura zvidhori zvakare uye mberi, vachigunzva uye vachichera purasitiki. Havana kungobvumirana chete asi isuwo zvakare.
Sevadzidzi vekuchikoro, vakanyunyuta vamwe vana vemakore maviri mukirasi yavo nekutamba kwavo. Kubudirira, vakadarika vaidzidza navo, avo vachiri kusarudza kufanana kwakadaro , sezvo mudzidzisi wavo aida kuzvidzora. Mushure mezuva rechikoro, ivo vacharamba vachiita pamba pamba, vachiita nyaya dzinonakidza nemitambo nemapopi avo nemhuka dzakaputika.
Shamwari dzangu nevana singletons vezera rimwe chete vanozonyunyuta pamusoro pezvinetso zvese zvekuchengeta vana vavo vachifarira. Vakatambura kuti vatsvake nguva yavo pachavo apo mwana wavo akanga asingadi kuti vatarise.
Izvi hazvina kumbova mutoro kwandiri somubereki webaba; vaviri vangu vakazvichengeta ivo pachavo.
Sezvavanokura, vasikana vakaona kubatsirwa kwekuzvipira ivo pachavo. Kuva nomudzimai akavakwa kunoita kuti zvive nyore kunyatsoongorora mamiriro matsva, zvakadai sokutanga chikoro, kupinda muboka, kuenda kune imwe musasa, kana kuenda pazororo.
Sezvavakaswedera makore avo gumi nemakore uye vakatanga kutenderera kudarika kuna Amai naBaba uye vamwe pavanoshamwaridzana navo, vakanyaradzwa nekuvapo kwemumwe munhu mukati mekusvika nguva dzose.
The Drawbacks
Asi kuva nemudzimai akavakidzana haisi nguva dzose seyakanaka sezvainoita kune nyika isiri mapatya. Kuzivikanwa kunounza kushorwa, shure kwezvose, uye sehukama chero hupi zvayo, vasikana vaigara vachida kuparadzana kubva kune mumwe. Kurwisana pakati pemapatya kunogona kunyanya kusimba, sevabereki vakawanda vachipupura. Apo mapatya asina shamwari kunze kweumwe, kune kurwisana kunogona kunyanya kutarisa.
Dzimwe nguva zvakaoma kuti mapatya ave nehukama hwehukama. Izvozvo ndizvo chaizvo zvakaitika kune vanasikana vangu vaviri. Pane dzimwe nguva, zvakanga zvakaoma kwavari kuti vave nehukama hwepedyo nevamwe vasikana sezvo vazhinji venyika vakazviona sepambani yekutengesa. Ichokwadi kuti kusarura kwemaviri kunowanikwa kune imwe nzvimbo, mamiriro ezvinhu apo mapatya anenge asina kubviswa kana kuregererwa panzvimbo pekuzivikanwa nokuda kweunhu hwavo.
Zvinotarisirwa Nevabereki
Sevabereki vezvizhinji, ibasa redu kuenzanisa zvikomborero zve "vakavakwa mumadzimai" pamwe nemiriro yemunhu mumwe nomumwe. Ziva kuti rimwe nerimwe rimwe kana katatu rinokodzera rimwe-ne-rimwe nguva nevabereki.
Kurudzirai mwana mumwe nomumwe kuti ave nehukama hwekunze . Usatarisira kubatana nguva dzose kana vari pamwe chete; pane kudaro, edza nzvimbo muukama hwevawanda kuburikidza nekupa mikana yega yega yekutamba uye mabasa. Kana iwe uchibvumira kuti multiples yako inakidzwe neukama hwavo hwakakosha asi uvakurudzire kukura semunhu mumwe nomumwe, vachawana hutano hwemagariro ekuti zvose zvinokudza hutano hwavo, uye zvinodzivirira kuti dzisave dzichigumbusa.