Kuchinja maitiro kunotsanangurwa se "kuchinja kwekuita maitiro kuburikidza nekushandiswa kwemaitiro akadaro ekudzidza sai biofeedback uye zvakanaka kana kusasimbisa kusimbisa." Zvimwe zviri nyore, unogona kukurudzira mwana wako kuti aite zviri nani nekunyatsocherechedza migumisiro yako iyo mwana wako inogamuchira nokuda kwemaitiro akanaka uye akanaka.
Kuchinja maitiro kunobva pane pfungwa yokuti maitiro akanaka anofanira kutungamirira pamigumisiro yakanaka.
Uye mufambiro wakaipa unofanira kutungamirira pamigumisiro yakaipa.
Kana ikashandiswa nguva dzose, inogona kutungamirira kumabatiro makuru ekuchinja kwenguva. Kuchinja maitiro kunowanzoshandiswa kuranga vana vane ADHD , autism kana kupikisa kusagadzikana chinetso , asi inogona kubudirira kune vana vemarudzi ose.
Kuchinja maitiro kunosanganisira chirango chakanaka, chirango chisina kunaka, kusimbiswa kwakanaka uye kusagadzirisa kusimba.
Zvakakodzera Kurangwa
Chirango chinoshandiswa kurega kusaipa mafambiro. Uye apo inonzwika ichivhiringidzika kuratidzira kurangwa sechinhu chakanaka, mumamiriro ekugadzirisa, izwi rinoreva kunowedzera. Saka chirango chakanaka chinosanganisira kuwedzera migumisiro iyo inodzivisa mwana kudzokorora chiito.
Mienzaniso yakananga yekurangwa kwakanaka inosanganisira:
- Vabereki vanopa mwana mamwe mabasa epamba kuti aite apo anoreva nhema pamusoro pokuchenesa mumba make.
- Mumwe mwana anotaura shoko rakajeka uye vadzidzisi vake vanomuudza kuti anyore mitsara 100 achiti haazopi zvakare.
Kutora zvakare muenzaniso wekurangwa kwakanaka. Asi nyanzvi dzakawanda dzinobvumirana kuti chirango chenyu hachifaniri kushandiswa mukugadzirisa maitiro.
Chirango chisina kunaka
Chirango chisina kunaka chinosanganisira kubvisa chimwe chinhu kubva kumwana. Mienzaniso inosanganisira kubvisa dzimwe ropafadzo kana kubvisa kunaka . Chirango chisina kunaka chinogona kuva nzira dzinobatsira zvikuru kubatsira mwana kudzidza kubva pamakanganisa.
Mienzaniso yakananga yekuranga zvakaipa inosanganisira:
- Mwana anoiswa munguva-kunze nokuda kwekusaita unhu hunomubvisa kubva kumhepo yaanofarira.
- Mubereki anoshandisa kusateerera kushingaira kurega kutarisa kwose apo mwana anoratidza kutsamwa kukuru .
- Mukomana anorasikirwa neropafadzo dzake dzefoni kana asingakwanisi kuita basa rake rechikoro.
Positive Reinforcement
Kunyatsosimbiswa kunoreva kupa mwana chinhu chimwe chinokurudzira maitiro akanaka. Chirango icho chinonyanya kuvimba pamusoro pokusimbiswa kwakanaka inowanzobudirira chaizvo. Mienzaniso yekusimbiswa kwakanaka inosanganisira kurumbidzwa , maitiro ekubhadhara , kana zviratidzo zvehupfumi hwehurumende .
Mienzaniso chaiyo yekusimbiswa kwakanaka inosanganisira:
- Mwana anoisa ndiro dzake mubhedha kana apedza kudya uye amai vake vanoti, "Basa rakakura kuisa ndiro yako ndisati ndakukumbira iwe!"
- Mwana anowana nguva yekutamba mitambo yemavhidhiyo yake yekupedzisa basa rake rechikoro asina kukakavara.
- Mumwe wechidiki uyo akadzidza zvakaoma semester yose anogamuchira A pamushumo wekadhi rake.
Negative Reinforcement
Kusagadzikana kusina kunaka apo mwana ari kuda kushandura maitiro ake nokuti ichabvisa chimwe chinhu chisingafadzi. Mwana anodzivisa mufambiro nokuti mubereki wake anomutaurira ari kuedza kubvisa kukanganisa kusina kunaka (kuridza).
Kukurudzira kusagadzikana kunofanira kushandiswa zvishoma nevana sezvo zvisingakwanisi kuva zvakakosha sekusimbiswa kwakanaka.
Mienzaniso yakananga yekusimudzira kusina kunaka inosanganisira:
- Amai vanotengesa mwanakomana wavo kuita mabasa epamba manheru oga oga uye husiku humwe anosarudza kuita mabasa ake pamba paanodzoka kubva kuchikoro kuti arege kumunzwa.
- Mwana ave achikakavadzana nevezera rake pamusana webhasi kuitira kuti amai vake vasarudze kuenda kubhasi yebhasi naye zuva rega rega. Anotanga kuzvibata pachitima chebhasi kuitira kuti amai vake vasatarisira bhazi naye.
- Mumwe wechidiki anonyunyuta pamusoro pekusada kuenda kuchikoro kutasva kwose kuchikoro mangwanani oga oga. Baba vake vanotendeuka pavanotaura hurukuro yepamusoro kuti vamudze kunze. Zuva rakatevera mwana wechidiki anomira kun'un'una saka baba vake havazofambidzwi nhepfenyuro yehurukuro.
Mashandisiro Aungaita Maitiro Ekugadzirisa Kuchinja Maitiro Edzimwana Wako
Kana uri kutarisira kuchinja mararamiro emwana wako, zvinhu zvinokosha kupfuura zvose zvekuyeuka ndezvokuti iwe unofanira kushandisa kusimbisa kwakanaka kwehutano hwakanaka uye chirango chakaipa pane chimwe chiitiko chekusaziva.
Paunoshandiswa nguva dzose, maitiro ekugadzirisa maitiro aya anogona kuchinja mararamiro emwana wako. Somuenzaniso, tanga kurumbidza mwana wako nguva dzose paanogovera, anotaura mazwi omutsa, uye anoshandisa zvinyoro zvinyoro. Zvino, nguva imwe neimwe yaanorova mumwe munhu, moisa munguva-yekubuda kana kubvisa ropafadzo.
Nokufamba kwenguva, iye achadzidza kuti mufambiro wakanaka unotungamirira kumigumisiro yakanaka uye mufambiro wakaipa unotungamirira kumigumisiro yakaipa.
> Sources
> American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry: Corporal Punishment.
> HealthyChildren.org: Kurapa Kwoutano hwevana neAdHD.