Kubatana kwevabereki nevana kunogona kukanganisa utachiona hwevana
Hazvishamisi kuti ukama nemubereki-mwana hunowanzozadzwa nekupesana kana kusaregererwa kungava nemigumisiro yakaipa kuvana 'manzwiro kana hutano hwepfungwa; asi wakanga uchiziva here kuti kuberekwa kwevabereki kunogonawo kukanganisa utano hwemwana? Kutsvakurudza kunoshamisa kwakaratidza kubatana pakati penzira iyo mubereki anobata nevana uye kuchinja kwehupenyu kuvana.
Chimwe chidzidzo, chakabudiswa mu Journal of Family Psychology munaNovember, 2016, chakaongorora kubatana pakati pemitambo yekuberekwa uye kuvhiringidza nekudzivirira zvirwere muvana, izvo zvinokonzera zviitiko zvekupedzisira chirwere. Vakawana kuti imwe nzira yakasiyana yekuberekera vana inonyanya kukwirira pamusana pekurera vana mubereki kutarisa, iyo dzimwe nguva inonzi "kurera vabereki" (vasingazivi kuti vana vanaani kana kuti chii chavari kuita, kwete kuranga; muhupenyu hwevana) yakabatanidzwa nepamusoro ye immune system activation.
Chii Chinonzi Kuberekera Mifananidzo?
Idzi nhatu dzemhando dzekurera vana dzinorondedzerwa nevepfungwa dzepfungwa ndezvenyanzvi, dzinobvumira, dzichiremera, uye dzisingabvumirwi.
- Mutongi: Vabereki vanogara vachitsvaka kuteerera zvakasimba uye havatsananguri mitemo yavo kana zvisarudzo kuvana uye vanoranga vana vasina kuratidza kufara kana kuti kutsigirwa vane hutongi. Vana vanokura nevabereki vane masimba vanowanzotya mamiriro matsva uye vanotambura nekuzviisa pasi , kuora mwoyo.
- Kubvumira: Vabereki vanobvumirwa nekutendera vana havagoni kuranga, kuomesa mitemo, kuisa miganhu kana kudzora maitiro evana vavo. Vana vane vabereki vanobvumirwa kuti vasave nehanya uye vasingateereri mitemo nemiganhu, vanoita zvechisimba, uye vanotarisana nedambudziko guru rekushandisa zvinodhaka. Vanewo mukana mukuru wekuora mwoyo nekuzvidya mwoyo .
- Chiremera: Chaizvoizvo chakanakisisa chenyika mbiri, rudzi urwu rwekurera vana runosanganisira vabereki vanoisa mitemo nemiganhu uye kupa vana migumisiro kana vasingatevere. Asi vabereki vane mvumo vanoitawo manzwiro ezvokuita uye anodziya, uye vanoita tsika yekuteerera nekukurukura nevana vavo. Vana vane vabereki vanoshandisa nzira iyi yekuberekera vana vanowedzera kukura nehutano hwakanaka hwehutano, hukama hwevanhu, uye kugutsikana, uye vanowanzove vakachengeteka nevabereki vavo.
- Hazvibvumirwi: Vabereki vasina kuzarurwa havawanzokurukurirana kana kubatana nevana vavo. Havasi vhudzi uye kugadzikana kuvana vane 'zvido zvepfungwa, uye havatori kunyanya kutarisira kana kuranga vana . Kuberekwa kusina kuwanikwa kunowanzoita kuti pave nemigumisiro yakaipisisa yevana, nevana vachipedzisira vachinetseka, vachizvidya mwoyo , uye vari pangozi yekutadza uye yakaipa maitiro pamwe nekushandisa zvinodhaka.
The Link Between Immune System uye Parenting Style
Kuti aongorore kuguma kwemitambo yakasiyana-siyana yemubereki pamusoro pehutano hwevana, vatsvakurudzi veYunivhesiti yeOregon vakaongorora saliva samples yevana 102 vaiva nevhareji yezera remakore 9 kutsvaga mazinga eC-reactive protein, iyo inoyera kuputika kwemuviri mumuviri, uye secretory immunoglobulin A, iyo inoyera maitiro ekudzivirira masimba.
Vakabvunza vabereki vevana kuti vapedzise Alabama Parenting Questionnaire, iyo inotarisa zvinhu zvishanu zvekurera vana: maitiro anobatsira avabereki, mazano ekuranga, kushandiswa kwakakwana kwemaitiro ekuranga, kushandiswa kwechirango, uye kurongedza uye kutarisa. Zvigumisiro zvaive zvakajeka: Zvikoro zvepamusoro pamusoro pevarombo vane muchengeti wekucherechedza chiyero zvakabatanidzwa nepamusoro yezvikamu zvekuvhiringidza uye kushandiswa kwekudzivirira muzvirwere muvana.
Chii chingave chiri kumashure kwekubatanidza uku? Chimwe chikonzero chingave kuti vabereki vari kukumbira vana kuti vazviriritire pane zvisingakwanisi, rinodaro kudzidza munyori wezvinyorwa Nicholas B.
Allen, PhD, purofesa wemakiriniki epfungwa paYunivhesiti yeOregon. Hatisi kutaura nezvemienzaniso yehelicopter kuberekera vana amok sevabereki vekoroji -zera vana vanodana mapurofesa kuti vaite nharo pamusoro pemakero; asi kwete kutarisira vana vane makore 9 kusvika pakuti vabereki havazivi kuti shamwari dzavo ndevanaani kana kuti chii chavari kuita hachisi kungozarura mwana kusvika kune njodzi dzinogona kuipa uye kusarudzwa kwakaipa, asi kuita kuti vasimbiswe zvakare. Uye rudzi irworwo rwekusagadzikana kusingaperi kunogona kuva rakaipa nokuda kwehutano hwemwana. "Kana pane zvirwere, zvirwere zvekudzivirira zvirwere zvakanaka," anodaro Dr. Allen. "Asi kusingaperi kushanda hakusi chinhu chakanaka."
Mhuri Yekurera Izvo Zvakanakisisa Zvevana 'Utano
Sezvo nezvinhu zvakawanda zvakadai mukubereki uye muupenyu, kuenzanisa ndiko kunokosha. Mhando yekutengesa uye pamusoro-inobatanidza kubereka haisi yakanaka kune vana nokuti vana vanoda kuedza uye kuzvimiririra zvakakwana, anodaro Dr. Allen. Asi kubvisa kuberekwa kwevana, uko vabereki vasingabatanidzi muhupenyu hwevana uye vasina ukama hwakasimba nevana vavo zviri pachena kuti hazvina kunaka kuvana 'mupfungwa, mupfungwa, kana kunyange kukura mumuviri .
Kutora mubereki kunonyanya kukosha kwehutano hwevana ndechimwe chisingaendi kure kose, uye chinobvumira kuzvimiririra uye chinopawo kurapa, anodaro Dr. Allen. "Iwe unoda kutsvaga-kwechinguva kupa rubatsiro apo mwana ari kuvaka uye achikura asi zvishoma nezvishoma anobvisa."