Nzira yekudzidzira kuzvidzora uye kuzvivimba kwevana
Kuwana rusununguko rwakawanda uye kuwedzera kuita zvinhu zvakawanda pasina vabereki ndezvakakosha uye chikamu chikamu chekukura. Asi vabereki vanoitei kuti vave nechokwadi chokuti vana vavo vari kuwana rubatsiro - uye kana zvichidikanwa, vamwe vachigunun'una-kuti vanoda kuva vakavimba uye vanozvimirira?
Chimwe chezvinhu izvo "sarudzo dzakasununguka vana" kukakavhiringidza kwave kusipo ndeyekuti vana vanogona kukurudzirwa kuva vakazvimiririra uye vane mutoro kuburikidza nezvakaitika zvakasiyana siyana nemamiriro ezvinhu.
Kuenda kutamba panzvimbo yepaki kana kuenda kuchikoro pachavo pazera remakore matanhatu, izvo zvingave izvo vamwe vabereki vanoda kukurudzira vana vavo asi kwete chimwe chinhu chinokurudzirwa nevabereki vose, haisi iyo nzira chete iyo iwe ungadzidzisa vana kuti vave vakawanda independent. (Hazvina kunaka kuudza vabereki vanoda, vanoti, kufamba nemakore gumi nemana kuchikoro "helicopter vabereki" - kuti mhuri inogona kurarama pedyo nemigwagwa yakawanda, kuti mwana angasave akagadzirira kufamba mumigwagwa iyoyo ivo pachavo, kana vabereki ivavo vangangoda kumirira kusvikira mwana wavo akwegura asati afamba ari oga.) Pasinei nokuti vanoona sei nezvevana vari voga panze vachiri vaduku, heino dzimwe nzira dzakawanda dzevabereki kukurudzira kuzvimiririra kuchikoro -zera vana.
Iva Nekutarisira Imwe Mimwe Mabasa Emhuri
Zvichienderana nezera remwana wako uye kuti rinogona kuvimbika uye rakarongeka sei, anofanira kukwanisa kubata chero nhamba ipi yeipi yakakodzera yemabasa epamba , kubvira pakuyerera kusvika kushamba ndiro.
Kunyange vana vaduku vanogona kubatsira kuisa tafura uye kururamisa makamuri avo. Mabasa epamba haagoni kungopa vana pfungwa yekuzvimiririra asi inogona kubatsira kusimbisa kuzvidzora kwavo pavanoona kuti basa ravo rinoita basa rinokosha kumhuri yavo.
Batsira pakugadzira menus uye kutenga kwezvitoro
Chimwe chezvinhu zvakanakisisa zvaunogona kuitira mwana wako ndechekumudzidzisa nzira yekunyatsonaka mukicheni uye pakupedzisira, kugadzirira kudya nyore.
Haisi kungozvitenga uye kubika pamwe chete nzira dzakanakisisa dzekudzidzisa vana vane utano hwakanaka , asi ivowo mikana yakanaka yemhuri yekupedza nguva pamwe chete. Vana vanowanzogovana zvinhu pamusoro pavo pachavo uye chii chiri kuitika muupenyu hwavo paunenge uchiita zvinhu zvakafanana sekutenga, kubika, kana kudya pamwechete. (Zvichida chimwe chezvikonzero zvinoita kuti kudya kwemanheru pamwe chete kwave kwakabatanidzwa kune zvakawanda zvinobatsira vana, kusanganisira zviri nani zvidzidzo zvepamusoro, huwandu hwekunyanyisa, uye kuderera kwemishonga yekushandisa zvinodhaka uye kuora mwoyo.) Kurega mwana wako kubatsire - uye pakupedzisira kunyange dzimwe nguva kutora-yekudya kwemhuri uye kudya zvinotapira inzira inokosha yekumudzidzisa kuti ave akazvimiririra.
Rubatsiro Tora Rubatsiro rweVaduku Vanin'ina Nevamwe Vana
Kuchengeta vana vaduku ndeimwe yenzira dzakanakisisa dzekudzidzisa vana nzira yekuve nemhosva uye yakakura. Tarisa wakatarisana nevana vakanakisisa mumunharaunda: Mikana ndeyekuti, ivo vechidiki vakomana nevasikana vachave vakavimbika, vakavakirwa, uye vane hanya nevaduku. Mhuri imwe neimwe inogona kusarudza kuti "kubysitting" zvinorevei mwana wekuchikoro: Imwe mhuri ingada kuti mwana wavo ane makore 9 ave mutungamiri wekuverenga kana kutamba mitambo nehanzvadzi yechidiki apo akwegura ari pedyo, apo imwe mhuri angasarudza kusarudza kusiya mwana wemakore gumi nemana ane mukomana wemakore manomwe apo mubereki anomhanyira kuchitoro kwemaminitsi mashomanana.
Chero zvingave zvakanyatsojeka, chinonyanya kukosha ndechokuti kuvimba nechemberi kutarisira vaduku inzira yakanakisisa yekudzidzisa vana kwete kungozvimirira chete, asi zvakanyanya kutarisirwa, zvakare.
Shandisa Nguva Yakawanda Pakuteerera Dates kana pamasangano asina Vabereki
Sezvo vana vachikura, vanowanzopedza nguva yakawanda kubva kumba vachiita zvinhu pachavo. Vechikoro-yevana vana vachakokwa kumamwe mapato ekuberekwa apo vabereki havaiti pamwe chete. Vachaenda kune dzimba dzevadzidzisi kuzotamba ivo pachavo nevanotarisana nevabereki, uye vachiwedzera kusarudza mitambo yavanenge vachitamba uye kushanda kuburikidza nekukakavadzana pachavo pachavo.
Kana mwana wako akagadzirira, ronga matanho emitambo mumba mako uye ngaaite kuti asarudze zvipi zvaanofarira kupa shamwari dzake. Muregei azive kuti kuenda kune dzimwe shamwari dzeimba pasina iwe chimwe chinhu chingava chinonakidza, uye kuti iwe uchakwanisa kugovana uye kutaura pamusoro pezuva rako apo iwe unomutora. (Asi iva nechokwadi chokuti unobvunza mibvunzo usati warega mwana wako paimba yemumwe munhu kuzoita kuti mibvunzo yekudzivirira inopindurwa kugutsikana kwako.) Uye kana mwana wako achinyara uye asina kugadzirira, tsigira - kwete kutonga - uye ramba uchiedzazve.
Iwe Musha Wokuzvipira Basa
Kune vana vaduku chaizvo, zvinhu zvose zvinongoitika maererano nezvinodiwa zvavo uye zvido zvavo. Apo vana vanobatsira vamwe, vanodzidza kufunga nezvezvinhu izvo zvisiri ivo pachavo, iyo inhanho inokosha pakukura. Chimwe chekubatsira kune vana vanozvipira , pasinei nekubatsira muvakidzani akwegura kana kuita sandwiches kune mhuri dzinoshayiwa muchechi yavo, ndeyekuti vana venyu vachave vashoma kutapudzwa kana kuti vanotambura nehuwandu uye vanogona kuva vanhu vane tsitsi uye vanonzwira tsitsi sezvavanokura.
Ramba Uchiteerera Chekuita Kumba Kwenyika uye Kuedzwa
Chinhu chimwe chete kubatsira mubatsiri wako wokutanga kuronga basa rake rekuchikoro uye kumuita muitiro wekuchengetedza nguva apo iye achange aine chidzidzo chekuedza. Imwe nyaya yakafanana kana mwana anowanzosimuka ari kuchikoro chesekondari kana chikoro chesekondari anoda vabereki vake kumubatsira kuti arambe achiona basa rake rechikoro. Isa zvakanaka maitiro emabasa kare kuti mwana wako adzidze nzira yekuita nayo mabasa ake oga paanenge akura, uye asingavimbi nevabereki vake kuti vamuudze basa rekuchikoro raanofanira kuita uye rini.
Rongedza Pamwe Purogiramu
Ipai mwana wenyu kalendari uye muite kuti ave netsika yekunyora mazuva anokosha uye kugadzwa. Sezvaanokura, achafanira kuchengetedza zvinhu zvakadai sekugadzwa kwechiremba, mazuva ekutamba, masangano ekuberekwa kwevamwe shamwari, mitambo kana zvinyorwa zvekare, nezvimwewo. Mwana akazvimirira achavimba naye, kwete kuvabereki vake, kuziva zvaanoda kuita uye kwaanoda kuva.
Dzidza Kuva Vafungidzi Vanozvimirira
Ita kuti mwana wako ave netsika yekufunga pamusoro pezvinhu uye kuumba maonero ake pane zvose kubva pane zvinoitika zviitiko zvezvinoitika kune zvakaitika kare kune nyaya dzenhema. Taura nezvezviitiko zvenhau pamusoro pekudya kwemanheru kana kuti uri mumotokari. Mukurudzire kuti akuudze zvaanofunga nezvenyaya. Apo iwe unonyatsoteerera mwana wako, uri kumuratidza kuti maonero ake ane basa kwauri uye kuti pfungwa dzake nemafungiro zvinokosha uye zvinokosha. Uye kana iwe usingabvumirani pamusoro pechinhu chimwe, iri mukana wakanaka wevana kuti vadzidze kuti vangakakavadzana sei uye vataure maonero avo noruremekedzo, vachidzidza kuona maonero akanaka evamwe vanhu maonero.
Tsvaga Nzira dzekuzvifadza
Zvakakosha kuti vana vazive kuti kwete nguva imwe neimwe yehupenyu hwavo inofanira kuzadzwa nemabasa akarongwa. Vana vanoda kudzidza kudzidza zvinhu zvinovada uye kuva nemukana wekushandisa nguva pazvinhu zvavanoda. Vabereki vanogona kukurudzira vana kuti vave vakazvimiririra nekuita zvinhu zvakadai sokugadza nguva yekuverenga pamwe chete zuva rega rega (iyo ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekuita vana vachiverenga zvakawanda pachavo) kana kuva nevana vanoita basa ravo pachavo kana kungotamba ivo pachavo pavanopedza kudya. Kana vabereki vakaratidza vana kuti vane zvavanofarira, zvakadai sekuita yoga, kuenda kunofamba neshamwari, kubata, kana kubata pabasa, vari kuita kuti zvive pachena kuti vabereki, sevana, vane zvido zvavo zvekuzvimiririra uye zvido zvavo, uye kuti zvakakodzera kuti vabereki nevana vaite zvinhu kunze kweumwe.
Nokuratidza mwana wako kuti kuzvimiririra chinhu chakanaka kune iwe iwe uye kwaari, uye nokumutsigira paanonzwa akanamatira kana kunzwa sokuti anoda imwe nzvimbo yekuita zvinhu ari oga, uri kuisa danho rekuti mwana wako atame kuzvidzora pamwero wake, nechivimbo uye kuzvidzora.