Iwe unofanirwa here kuva nehanyanya kana vana vako vekuwanda vachiwanda vachiti "kukuda" uye zvinonzwika se "lub ou"? Ita mapatya ako jabber kune mumwe nemumwe mumutauro usinganzwisisi kunze kweivo ? Ko hutano hwako hwekuwanda hukuru hunokutambudza iwe here?
Somubereki, zvinowanzooma kunzwisisa kuti unyanzvi hwemutauro huri kukura zvakadini uye apo mwana angangoda zvimwe kunze kwekubatsira.
Vakawanda vanowanzova nehuwandu hwekutaura uye matambudziko ekukurukura mutauro. Zvinhu zvakawanda zvinoita kuti mutauro uye / kana mutauro unonoke muzvizhinji.
- Vakawanda vanowanzotaurirana nemapatya, mutauro unotaurwa kana mutauro wemasaini uye mutauro. Zvizhinji zvinowanzobudirira pakukurukurirana mumwe nomumwe kuti kutaura kwavo uye kukura mutauro kunogona kunonoka.
- Unhu hunosiyana uye hutano hwomwana hunowanzoita kuti huwandu hwekutaura uye mutauro hufambire. Vasikana vanowanzova mazwi akawanda kupfuura vakomana. Kunyara uye vana vanotya vanowanzove vakanyanyisa.
- Vakawanda nzvimbo inowedzera kudiwa kune vabereki kurerutsa huwandu hwehumwe-ne-umwe hutano nekubatana kwemwana mumwe nomumwe anogamuchira.
- Imwe nyanzvi inogona "kutaura" kune imwe yakawanda inoderedza kudiwa kwe "mwana akanyarara" kutaura. Izvi zvinogonawo kuitika nehanzvadzi dzakwegura dzinokurumidza kutaura pamusoro pomwana panzvimbo yekuita kuti mwana adzore manzwiro avo.
Aya mazano makuru anogona kukubatsira kuziva kana mwana wako angave ari kunonoka:
Pakati pemwedzi 12-24, vana vako vanofanira:
- Gadzirai mazwi maviri akajeka
- Iva nemashoko ekushanda ari pakati pe10 - 20 mazwi
- Ita kukwanisa kutevedzera imwe mhuka inonzwika
- Wave zvakanaka-bye
- Nganzwisiswe anenge 25% yenguva nenguva nevasiri vedzimba
Pakati pemwedzi 24-36, vana vako vanofanira:
- Bvunza nyore "chii" uye "sei" mibvunzo
- Iva nemashoko makumi mana-izwi
- Ita kuti utaure zita ravo
- Pindura "kupi" mibvunzo
- Match 3-4 mavara
- Ziva zvikamu zvemuviri
- Shandisai 3-4 mazwi kusanganiswa
- Tevera mirayiridzo iri nyore
- Nganzwisiswe nguva dzinenge makumi mashanu kubva kune avo vasiri nhengo dzemhuri
Pakati pemakore 3-4 vana vako vanofanira:
- Shandisai 4-5 mazwi akabatanidzwa, achitaura nguva dzose mumitsara
- Iva neruzivo rwemashoko anenge 1 000
- Tanga kutumidza mazita
- Ita kuti utaure nyaya
- Unogona kudzokorora rhyme rhyme
- Ikunzwisiswa kanenge 75% kwemaawa neveri vasiri nhengo dzemhuri
- Ita kutevera 2-3 nhanho mirairo
- Kunzwisisa zvakawanda zvezvinotaurwa kwavari
Pakati pemakore 4-5, vana vako vanofanira:
- Shandisa nguva yapfuura zvakarurama
- Iva neruzivo rwemashoko anenge 1 500
- Ita kuti uzive mavara makuru
- Kunzwisisa pfungwa dzekupesana
- Taura zvakajeka
- Shandisa zvinopfuura 5 mazwi mumutsara
- Taurazve nyaya nenyaya yake
Kunyange kutaura / mutauro kunonoka kungave kwakakurumbira muzvizhinji, zvinogona kuva nemigumisiro yakanyanya mukubudirira kwavo kuchikoro. Kutaura kwakanaka uye kukura mumitauro ndiko kuvaka zvigaro zveunyanzvi hwakanaka hwokuverenga nekunyora. Saka iwe unoitei kana mumwe kana zvizhinji zvako zvisingatauri mitemo iyi?
Gamuchira Unyanzvi hweUnhu
Kana iwe uchifungidzira kuti kunonoka mukukurukurwa mumitauro taura nevana vako.
Iwe unogonawo kutevera kuongororwa iwe pachako kuburikidza nehurukuro yehurukuro yega yega (chengetedza kuparidzirwa neinishuwarenzi yako) kana kuburikidza neunharaunda yako Yepakutanga Kupindira Chirongwa kana chikoro chechikoro. Vanhu Vane Dambudziko Rokuremara (IDEA) vanoita kuti mwana wese avimbiswe kugamuchira dzidzo yakasununguka uye yakakodzera, kusanganisira kutaura uye mutauro wemishonga.
The Assessment Process
Chiremba wevana vako anofanirwa kutumira mwana wako kunhengo yakakodzera yekuongorora. Zvisinei, chiremba chechipatara chevana hachidikanwi. Somubereki, une kodzero yekukumbira kuongorora.
Kana mwana wako ari pasi pezera remakore matatu uye iwe haungashandisi mutauriri wekutaura wega wega, unogona kutaurira chirongwa chako chekutanga chekuchechera mwana kuburikidza neguta rako kana kuti dunhu reDestern Health.
Tarisa mapeji ebhuruu mubhuku refoni kuti uwane mazita.
Mushure mokunge iwe uchitanga kuonana, kuongorora kunenge kuchirongwa. Kazhinji, izvi zvinoreva boka revanhu vakagadzirira vachauya kumba kwenyu kuti vaongorore. Kuongorora-musha kunobvumira vana kuti vabatane mumamiriro ezvinhu akajairika. Iko kuongorora kunowanzotamba-uye kunonakidza.
Kuwanda kwekuwedzera, kuongorora kunongorongwa kuburikidza nedunhu rekuchikoro. Mushure mekunge mwana wenyu atumirwa kuti aongororwe, nguva yekusangana ichaitwa kuti iongororwe. Iko kuongororwa kunowanzoitika munzvimbo inotamba-yakazara yakazara yevana, mapuzzles, mabheji, nezvimwe zvinokurudzira. Kazhinji, mubereki anogara muimba iyo boka revanhu vakakodzera vanobatana nevana, vachitora zvinyorwa zvavo. Kuongororwa kunogona kuitwa kuti uone kana kurasikirwa kunonzwa kuripo.
Kugamuchira Therapy
Kana zvikamu zvekuongorora zvinoratidza dambudziko, kurapwa kunogona kukunda. Vana vari pasi pemakore matatu vangangobatsirwa nekuwana kurapwa mumusha panguva yekushanyirwa kubva mukutaura kwechirwere chechipatara . Kuwedzerwa kwechiremba kunobva pane zvinodiwa nemwana wako nezvinodiwa. Murapi wako achapa mazano uye mazano aunofanira kushandisa kumba kuti akurudzire uye kusimbisa mutauro wako wekuwedzera uye unyanzvi hwokutaura.
Nharaunda dzekuchikoro dzinharaunda dzinofanirwa kupa chirwere chemikana kune vana vanopfuura 3. Muzviitiko zvizhinji, komiti ichasarudza nzira yakanakisisa yekurapa kumwana mumwe nomumwe, kurondedzera zvinangwa nezvinangwa zvavanoda kuona mwana achizoita. Zvirongwa zvinosiyana uye zvinoenderana nekushaiwa; vamwe vana vangangoda sangano remaminitsi makumi matatu nemasere rinotarisa kutaura. Vamwe vanogona kukodzera mapurogiramu ezvidzidzo zvekare zvinotsigira kutaura nekukurukura mutauro; vana ava vanosvika 2 kusvika 5 pavhiki kwemaawa maviri kusvika ku3 pazuva.
Mishonga yakawanda yekurapa ndeyokutamba-based, ichivakurudzira kutaura nezvazvo nekuvaka pane zvinyorwa zvinofarira. Kurapa kwevana vakwegura kunotarisa chikamu chikuru mukukura kwemashoko, kuwedzera mazwi avo uye kushandiswa kwemashoko, pamwe chete nemutauro (unyanzvi hwokutaura). Semuenzaniso, panguva yekunyanyisa mwana anofanira kufungidzira zvaanoda, panzvimbo pokutsanangurira kana kugunun'una, kuitira kuti agamuchire nyoka. Vana vanogara vachikurudzirwa kutaura uye kupa mikana yakawanda uye zvinokurudzira kugadzira hurukuro kuburikidza nematayipi, mitambo, nguva yepakati, etc. Kana matanho ekutaurirana aripo murapi achatamba mitambo nemwana kusimbisa rurimi nemiromo kuitira kuti mwana agone kuumba ivo nenzira yakarurama pavanotaura.
Zvingave zviwande zvako zviri mune chirongwa chekutanga chekupindira kana kugamuchira kurapwa kuburikidza nedunhu rekuchikoro, ruzivo rwavo rwunoenzaniswa nekusangana kwavanoita zvinangwa nezvinangwa. Pane imwe nguva vachiratidza kufambira mberi kunogona kuitika uye kusangana kana kudarika izvo zvinangwa uye zvinangwa, vachazobuda kunze kwepurogiramu.
Nzira Yokubatsira Pamba Pamba
Kuti ubatsire kudzivisa kutaura kunonoka, kana iwe unonetseka kuti zvakawanda zvako zvinogona kunge zvichikurumidza kunonoka, pane zvimwe zvinhu zvaunogona kuita kuti ubatsire . Kunze kwokutsvaga rubatsiro rwemhizha, kune dzimwe nzira dzaungashandisa kumba.
- VERENGA! Verenga zvinonzwika kumapatya ako zuva nezuva. Uyu mukana wakanaka wokukurudzira mutauro . Taura uye utaure nezvemifananidzo nemashoko pane peji rimwe nerimwe. Vabvunze, "Munofunga kuti chii chinotevera?" uye nemimwe mibvunzo. Kunyanya kukurukurirana kune pakati pemubereki nemwana, nemikana yakawanda yehutano hwemutauro yekukudziridza. Ita kuti uone terevhizheni mwana wako anotarisa. Nguva idzodzo dzinogona kupa mubereki ane unyanzvi hunodiwa, asi haaiti kuti akurudzire mutauro.
- Dzokorora . Apo mawanda ako achitaura newe, kuratidza mwana mumwe nomumwe kuti iwe unonzwisisa zvaakataura kuburikidza nekudzokorora zvakare mazwi ake uye kuwedzera pane ruzivo rwakapiwa. Somuenzaniso, kana Jack akakumbira mukaka achiti "mukaka," akapindura "Jack angada mukaka. Tarisa Jack, tine mukombe wekutupa wemukaka wako. "
- Taura . Taura kazhinji nemapatya ako kana akawanda. Bvisa radhiyo mumotokari uye utaure pamusoro pekuenda kwako uye zvauchaita kana iwe uchisvika ikoko. Semuenzaniso, panzira yekuenda kuchirongwa che zoo pamusoro pemhuka dzose dzauchaona ipapo, uye mheremhere yemhuka imwe neimwe inoita. Pamba, tsanangura zvakasiyana-siyana zvauri kushandisa sezvo uchibika. Sezvaunotora kupoteredza imba, taura pamusoro pematayini iwe uri kuisa.
- Pindura zvakakodzera. Kana mwana wako akarereka kana kugunun'una pane zvinhu, usapa mubairo wekusaziva mutauro nokumupa zvaanoda. Pane kudaro, ingoita chete kana chiedza chekutaura chikumbiro chave chaitwa. Chero chero chiedza chekutaura chirevo chinofanira kupiwa mubayiro uye kurumbidzwa. Usakanganise mwana wacho nekugadzirisa kana kukumbira kuti "ataure zvakadai." Pane kudaro, fungidzira nzira yakarurama, yakadai se, "Cookie? Unoda cookie here? Heano chiko chako. "
- Shandurudza. Kana uine vana vakwegura vanoedza "kutaurira" vana, taura navo nezvekukosha kwekutendera vana vaduku kukumbira zvinhu. Kana mapatya emwana wako ari kuedza kuita zvose zvaanotaura kwaari, kurudzira maawa maviri kuti abviswe "Jack ane nguva yekutaura."