Unhu hunhu hunowanzosvibiswa nekunyara
Vabereki vakawanda vanoda kuti mwana wavo ave anonzwika uye asina hanya uye anowanzotamburira kana mwana ari chimwe chinhu asi. Kunyange kana mwanakomana kana mwanasikana achiita seanogadziridzwa zvakanaka, chokwadi chokuti iye akanyarara uye anosarudza kushandisa nguva oga anogona kutyaira vamwe vabereki kusvika pakunetseka.
Mubvunzo ndewokuti? Ichokwadi ichocho ndechokuti vamwe vana vanozvarwa nevanopinda.
Ihwo hunhu hunoita kuti vanhu vakawanda vaone sevasinganzwisisiki, vachikunyengedza sehupfungwa husina kukonzera iyo munhu anoonekwa seanopesana nevanhu, anotambudzika, kana kunyange ane manyawi.
Mukubata nemanetswa avo, vabereki vanowanzomanikidzira mwana anotumwa kuti ataurirane nevamwe nenzira isiri yemasikirwo kana kuti yakasununguka. Kana chigumisiro chisina kunaka, chinongoshanda chete kusimbisa kumubereki kuti chimwe chinhu chakaipa apo, chokwadi, chinhu chimwe chete chingave chakafanana nemutarisiro wemubereki.
Kunzwisisa Introversion
Introversion unhu hunhu hunoita kuti munhu arege kutsigira kana kushingairira mune zvinokurudzira zvikuru zvemagariro evanhu. Kunyange zvazvo vamwe vanhu vachifunga kuti ichinhu chakanaka kana mafungiro, kutaurirana ndeye nheyo iyo mwana wako anoona nyika zviri pachena.
Nepo vamwe vana vanobudirira mune zvekugarisana uye vane mafungiro emagariro nekutaurirana kweboka, vatsva vanoona zvakasiyana.
Nokuda kwekutsvaga, kugadzikana nekuchengetedza pamwe ne clatter yekushamwaridzana kwevanhu kunogona kungovhiringidza chete asi kunaya. Uyezve, kukundikana kurarama maererano nezvinodiwa zvevamwe zvinogona kungoita kuderedza kuvimba uye kuzviziva kuti mwana angangodaro ane.
Chikanganiso icho vanhu vazhinji vanoita ndechokufungidzira kuti kupindira kune chinhu chimwechete sekusurukirwa kana kunyara kana kuti mutauriri wezvinyorwa zvakasikwa.
Muzvokwadi, chimwe chezviito zvekutsvaga ndezvekwanisi yekuva nehanya nechekugara kwevanhu uye zvinorehwa. Zvinyorwa zvinowanzowedzera kunzwisisana uye zvakabatana zvakasanangana kune vamwe vanowirirana nevamwe. Misiyano chete ndeyokuti ivo vanoita kudaro mukati mehukama hwepedyo uye havakwanisi kuita maererano nezvinoda zveboka rinosimba.
Izvi hazvirevi kuti vese vatsva ndivo vakafanana kana kuti vamwe havadi kuti vanyanyiswe . Anonyatsoziva kuti vamwe vanopindirana sei, mwana anotsvaga anowanzotora matanho ekuenda kunze kwenzvimbo yake yekunyaradza, kazhinji nechekondari kana kuchikoro chesekondari.
Haisi nguva dzose nyaya, asi, uye mamwe mavambo anopfuura kufara kuchengetedza zviduku zvemagariro evanhu uye zvinyanyisa kutsvaga kwehupenyu hwavo hwose.
Kurarama NeChipiri Chine Mwana
Somubereki , chipo chakakura zvikuru chaunogona kupa kumwana akazarurirwa kubvuma. Paunenge uchida kukurudzira kurovedza muviri, kuita zvekuita, uye kushamwaridzana kwehutano, zvakakosha zvikuru kuziva kuti mwana wako anonzwa sei kukura kwepfungwa uye anowana kukurudzira kwekunzwisisa.
Kana iwe ukapa mwana wako nzvimbo yekuita sarudzo-kusanganisira kana uye nguva yekuwedzera hutano hwemagariro evanhu-iye kana akanzwa kunge asina kupiwa mhosva nokuda kwekuperevedza kwako kana chimwe chinhu chaunotarisira.
Zvakakoshawo kuti iwe uone zvipo nezvipo zvekurarama nemwana akazarura:
- Mwana akazaruka angave asina kuratidza kushingaira kusina kukodzera kwevamwe vana, asi kudzivisa kwavo kunowanzovabvumira kuti vanyatsofungisisa uye vazive kusarudzwa.
- Vana vekudzivirira vana vanowanzoita kuti vasanyengerwe nevezera ravo uye vanowanzodziviswa nevaya vangave vachivamanikidza.
- Sezvo vazhinji vanovhura vana vanoda kushamwaridzana nemhuri kana shamwari dzepedyo, vangangotendeukira kwamuri kuti vabatsirwe kana zvichidiwa.
- Kunyange zvazvo hurumende inowanzopa mubayiro vanhu nokuda kwekutenderera kwavo uye kunyange kushungurudza, mavambo anowanzova nekutarisa kwepamusoro uye haashoma kuderedzwa nemafambisirwo, nhepfenyuro yevanhu, kana maonero makuru pane imwe nzvimbo.
Pakupedzisira, zvibvunze kana mwana wako wekutanga akafara uye akachinjwa zvakanaka. Kana mhinduro yacho ichiti "hungu," edza kudzokera shure uye kurega kuenda kune chero upi zvake unonetseka kana zvinotarisirwa.
Pakupedzisira, kutaurirana hakusi chinhu chakafanana nehutano hwehupfumi hwevanhu kana kudzivisa hutano hwehutano. Icho chinongova chimiro chekuti mwana wako ndiani uye unhu hweunhu hwakagoverwa nevamwe vezvinyorwa zvakanyatsogadziriswa munhoroondo kubva kuna Abraham Lincoln naAlbert Einstein kuna Bill Gates naJK Rowling.
> Kwakabva:
> Condon, M. naRuth-Saad, L. "Kupindura vadzidzi vatsva uye vanyadzisa: Mazano akanaka emitemo kune vadzidzisi nevadzidzisi." Vhura J Nurses. 2013; 3;: 503-15. DOI: 10.4236 / ojn.2013.37069 P.