Kwokushandura Paunodzidza Uri Kutarisira Mawanda
Iwe wakagamuchira kushamiswa kwehupenyu hwako. Iwe une mapatya (kana zvimwe). Kamwe kamwe mimba yako yakazadzwa nekunakidzwa kaviri, uye zvichida kaviri kero yekuzvidya mwoyo zvakare.
Pfungwa dzako dziri kuputirana nemibvunzo . Izvi zvakaitika sei ? Zvakadini kana ini ndichipa mangwanani? Ndichavaudza sei zvakasiyana ? Tinoda chimwe chikwata , chigaro chemotokari , kana motokari huru? Zvichida kunyange imba huru?
Tichazowana sei nguva yekoroji nguva mbiri? Usanetseka, uchawana mhinduro dzemibvunzo iyi yese nezvimwe. Upenyu sezvaunoziva hahuzombovi hwakafanana. Hezvino izvo zvaunoda kuita zvinotevera.
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Tora kufema kwakadzika. Yenguva yekukurukura nevadzidzisi-vabereki vevakawanda vakambove mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana uye vakararama kuti vaudze nyaya yacho. Kutaura kune dzimwe mhuri kuchasimbisa kutya kwako uye kukurudzira iwe kuti hupenyu nehuwandu hunofadza chaizvoizvo. Kunyange zvazvo muviri wako uchigadzirira vana vako kuberekwa, mazano kubva kune vamwe amai navanababa vachakubatsira kugadzirira mwoyo wako neimba yako.
Nekuzvarwa kwakasiyana-siyana pakusimuka, mikana iwe unoziva mumwe munhu ane mapatya kana katatu. Taura navo uye taurirai mashoko enyu anofadza. Vachafara kuti iwe wakaropafadzwa zvakapetwa, uye zvinopfuura zvingave zvichifara kupa mamwe mazano. Asi kana iwe usingazivi ani zvake, pane dzimwe nzira dzekubatana nevabereki uye nekugadzira rutivi rwekutsigira:
- Makirasi emhuri dzine dzakawanda anowanikwa munenge mutaundi rimwe nerimwe. Dare rako rekugadzirisa zvipatara kana chipatara chinogona kunge chiine ruzivo rwekutsvaga kwekambani yemunharaunda. Kana, taura nehurumende yenyika yakafanana ne Multiples of America (yaimbova National Organisation of Mothers of Twins Clubs kana NOMOTC) muUnited States kana Multiple Births Canada (yaimbozivikanwa sePOMBA).
- Tsvaga yekutengesa. Kana iwe ukasarudza kupa kubva kunyaradzo yekibhodi yako, tsvaga misha yeIndaneti yevabereki vewanda. Usanyara; svetuka mukati mese nemibvunzo kana zvinetso. Iwe uri chokwadi kugamuchira mhinduro inotsigira.
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Mabhuku akawanda akaisvonaka anowanika, mazhinji akanyorwa nevabereki vezvizhinji. "Zvinhu zvose Twins, Triplets, nezvimwe" naPamela Fierro inzvimbo yokutanga. Tsvaga mazano uye ruzivo kubva kune vanokurumbira vamamai saJean Seymour kana mutsigiri wekuyamwisa Karen Kerkhoff Gromada. Iwe uchawanawo nhau dzega kubva kuvabereki mu Twins Magazine , inowanikwa pasina mahwendefa ekunyora. Kana iwe uchiwedzera kuziva nezvezvishamiso zvezvizhinji, iwe wakanyatsogadzirira iwe uchava wezvinetso zvauchasangana nazvo munzira.
Wana Mhinduro
Iwe unogona kunge uine mibvunzo yakawanda pamusoro pokuva nemapatya. Ndingafudza mapatya here? Ndichafanira kuenda kunorara here? Wana mhinduro kune mamwe emibvunzo inowanzobvunzwa pamusoro pemapapiro maviri / pamuviri.
Kubata pamuviri kunogona kutarisana nezvinetso zvakanyanya zvehutano zvakanyanya pane kubata pamuviri, uye unogona kutya kuti uzviwanire iwe sengozi yakakwirira . Kunyange zvazvo pane chikonzero chekuchenjerera, hapana chikonzero chekutya.
Sezvaunotaura kune vamwe vabereki vabereki vezvizhinji, vabvunze pamusoro pezvakaitika kwavari.
Iwe unogona kunzwa nyaya shomanana dzekutangisa kwebasa rekushanda uye kuwedzerwa kugadziriswa, asi iwewo uchasimbiswa kuti vanaamai vazhinji vanopa utano hwakakwana hwenguva dzose vasina matambudziko zvachose. Ruzhinji rwevakadzi vakawanda vane pamuviri vane mufaro unopera; kunyange mamiriro ezvinhu akaipa zvikuru anogona kugadziriswa nezvishamiso zvekurapa kwemazuva ano.
Shoko Rinobva Kunyanya
Rwendo rwako ruchiri kutanga. Pachava nenguva dzekutya, kuora mwoyo, uye kuneta, asiwo mufaro mukuru, kushamisika, uye rudo. Kugamuchirwa kunyika inoshamisa yezvizhinji.