Mazano Okufambisa nevana Vasina Matambudziko

Ngatitarisei. Kufambidzana nevana kunogona kuva mumwe wevaya "vanoita kana kuputsa" nguva muhupenyu hwedu sevabereki apo maitiro edu akaedzwa uye tinowana izvo zvatakagadzirwa.

Anoshungurudza uye ane ruvara kana mwana ane ruvara. Tantrums inopera nekuchema kana kuchema. Kuvharidza vamwe vatasviki uye vashandi vanodzvinyirirwa. Mikana iwe wakambovepo, uye iwe hauna kutarisira kuenda ikoko zvakare.

Pane chimwe chinhu chaunogona kuita kudzivirira (kana kuderedza kuderedza) kushushikana kwekubhururuka nevana? Iwe unogona here kuita kuti zvinakidze?

Mhinduro ndeyokuti "Hongu." Zvechokwadi. Chinokosha kugadzirira mberi. Isa pakero yezvokuvaraidza uye zvinhu zvekudya zvinotakura mukutakura kwako, uye gadzirira vana vako pane zvaunotarisira. Heino tsvakurudzo yakawanda yezvinhu zvaunofanira kuita kare kuti uite rwendo rwako rwunotevera rwendo ruchizorora, uye kunyange rufaro, rwemhuri yose.

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Book Seats Together
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Paunenge uchigadzirisa ndege, mabhuku akagara pamwe chete kuitira kuti mhuri yako yose igere mune imwe nzvimbo uye nguva dzose vana vako vanopedza kushambidza havatambudzi vamwe vatasvi. Vana vanoda kutarisa kunze kwehwindo, saka edza kuverenga chigaro chewindo kana zvichibvira.

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Vakai munguva yakawedzerwa Kuti vasvike paIndaneti
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Nhamo, yaenda mazuva ekutanga-mubereki apo iwe unogona kukanda zvikwama zvako mutekisi uye zip kusvika kudivi yepamhepo nguva yako isati yaenda. Panzvimbo pokutambudzika kushungurudzika kwekukurumidza kuenda kuhofisi yepamhepo neveimba yako (iyo inogona kuderera mukati memafungiro ako panguva yekuenda), zvipe nguva yakawanda yekuenda ikoko, pinda nepakachengeteka, uye usvike pasuo rako. Yeuka, iwe uri kuita zvinhu panguva yemwana ikozvino, saka usakanganwa kubvumira marwendo avo asina kutarisirwa awakashambadzira, kufarira kutamba mitambo yemavhidhiyo yemhepo, uye ... asi isu tichamira pano, kana kuti hauzombofi kubva pasi.

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Gadzirira Vana Vako Kuchengeteka Kuchengetedza
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Kutora nhengo dzesimbi, kubvisa jaketi (uye, nokuda kwevana vadarika 12, shangu), kuisa zvinhu zvinokosha pabhanhire uye kuvatarisa zvinyangarika munzvimbo inerima, nzvimbo isingazivikanwe-inogona kunge yakavhiringidza uye inotyisidzira vana. Nenzira yakanaka, iwe unogona kuichengeta kuti irege kuitika. Zvakanaka usati waenda kunhandare yemhepo, udza vana vako zvaunotarisira uye nei zvichikosha.

Simbisai kuti chekuchengetedzwa kwekuchengeteka inhanho inokosha mukubhururuka, uye tsanangura kuti Transportation Security Administration (TSA) vatariri varipo kuti vabatsire kuchengeta munhu wose akachengeteka mumhepo. Hapana chikonzero chekutya ivo nekutaura kwevanhu vanogona kukuvadza; ingova yekurudzira uye kuratidzira kuti iwe unonyatsosununguka nekuchengetedzwa kwemitemo.

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Uya Nemamwe Mafirimu
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Haufungi kuti mune nzvimbo ye laptop, iPad, kana mamwe maikirwo ekudhiya mafirimu mumutambo wako? Funga futi. Iwe uchave uchionga iwe unazvo. Imba yevana yakanaka ' inogona kutora mwana kutarisa kweawa nehafu kana kupfuura, izvo zvinoreva kuti haunzwisisike "Ndinoshushikana!" kwenguva refu. (Kuti uende ndege huru, iva nechokwadi chekutakura mafirimu akawanda pane imwe yako yepadhi kana iPad. Funga nezvemitambo yemavhidhiyo chaiyo, zvakare.) Iva nechokwadi chekutakura nzeve kuitira kuti vamwe vatasvi vasavhiringidzika.

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Pack Pack Coloring Books uye Zvimwe Zvemabasa Akanaka
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Kuchengetedza mabhuku, makrayoni, mapepa ekuchera, uye zviratidzo zvichabatsira kuchengeta vana vanoita kana vakagumburwa nekuona mafirimu. Paunenge uchibhururuka kunze, kurudzira vana vako kuti vateve mifananidzo yezvinhu zvavanoda kuita kana waenda kunzvimbo yako. Panzira yekudzokera, vanogona kutora mifananidzo yevanoyeuka zvavanofarira zvekufamba kana zvinhu zvavakasakwanisa zvikuru pamusoro peimba.

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Usakanganwa Mabhuku
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Uya nemabhuku makuru evana pamwe chete, zvose mukudhinda uye paCD kana pa iPod yako, ebook, kana MP3 player. Mwana akwegura angafadzwa nekuverenga bhuku chinyararire; mwana muduku angada kusateerera kune rebook audio. Chero nzira, funga kusarudza chimwe chinhu chinonakidza kana chiito chakazara kuitira kuti mwana wako afungisise zvingaita kuti arambe akaisa pfungwa pairi kwenguva.

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Itai Kuti Mhuri Ifambe Mitambo
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Vatambi vekufambisa, chess, Scrabble, kana imwe yemutambo webhobho iyo yakagadzirwa uye ine maginheti (nekuti zviduku zviduku zvemutambo zvinogona kurasikirwa) zvakakwana pakufambisa ndege. Uye nokuti Mutemo waMurphy unowedzera kushanda kune chero rudzi rwekufamba nevana, kuunza mamwe mitambo yekufambisa mumhuri kuchakugadzirira kuti utsungirire kunonoka kusingatarisirwi.

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Pack Pack Snacks
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Chikoro chako-chikoro chingave chisati chiri chiduku chinoda kudya kwemaawa akawanda, asi haunoda ane nzara, mwana akaremara pamaoko ako kana paine chero kunonoka. Mukuwedzera, kuuya nezvimwe zvokudya zvakagadzikana zvakadai sekucheka kwemafuta, zvipfeko, uye michero zvinogona kukubatsira kuti usapinda mafuta akakwirira, ane shuga yakakwirira ayo waunosangana nawo pedyo nemasuo eenhandare kana kuti ugoiswa mundiza. (Yeuka kutenga juice nemvura mushure mekunge wapfuura TSA kuongorora sezvo iwe usingakwanise kuunza mvura kuburikidza nekuchengeteka.)

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Uya neLollipops kana Gum
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Ikunzwa kwekunzwa kwe "nzeve dzako" dzinokwira "nekuda kwekumanikidza kwemhepo kuchinja panguva yekuenda uye kuburuka kunogona kuvhiringidza zvakakwana kune vanhu vakuru-kungofunga kuti zvinogona kunzwa sei kumwana. Inogonawo kuva inorwadza. Kuti uderedze kusagadzikana, iva nechokwadi chokuti unosanganisira lollipops kana imwe svondo yakaoma kuti vana vako vamuyamise uye / kana gum kuti vatsvake panguva yekuenda uye kuburuka.

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Gadzirira Mwana Wako Kuti Uve Nengozi
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Pasina kutyisa, gadzirira mwana wako zvaanoda kuita kana iwe ukaparadzaniswa: Ita kuti mwana wako azive zita rake rakazara, kero, uye nhare yefoni, uye udza mwana wako kuti akumbire mukadzi ane mwana kuti abatsirwe kana inoda.

Nzira yakanakisisa yekuchengeta mwana wako akachengetedzeka munzvimbo dzakawanda dzevanhu dzakadai sedare rekudenga haisi kumurambidza kunze kwako. Simbisai mwana wenyu kuti asambodzungaira asina Amai kana Baba. (Izvozvo zvinotanga kushandiswa mumashambirwe emashambadziro, zvakare.) Kana uri kufamba uri oga nemwana wechirume chakasiyana, shandisa imba yekugara.