Kuchengetedza Imba Yako / Ukama Hwakasimba Paunenge Uchiedza Kuziva
Kungofanana nekushaya vana kunokonzera kushungurudzika mupfungwa kune mumwe munhu, kunobatanidzawo hukama-kunyanya, rudo rwako rwemudanana.
Kuedza kubata pamuviri kunogona kukonzera kukakavadzana uye kukakavara, asi zvinogonawo kuita kuti vakaroorana vaswedere pedyo. Inogona kuita zvose panguva imwe chete!
Heano mamwe emhando dzakawanda dzehukama nezvinetso zvakabudiswa nekushaya simba, kuteverwa nemitoo inobatsira yaunogona kutora kuti upore uye kukura kubva pane zvakaitika.
Nyaya pane tsvakurudzo: iyo yakawanda (kana isiri yose) yezvidzidzo zvehutano uye kusagadzikana kwekusagadzikana kwakaitwa nevarume nevarume vakaroorana vakaroorana.
Dzimwe dzidzo dzinodiwa, kunyanya izvo zvinosanganisira dzakasiyana-siyana zvehukama hwemhando. Kusvikira panguva iyo, tinogona kushandisa zvatinodzidza kubva pakutsvakurudza kwekuroorana, uye zvishoma nezvishoma kushandisa mhinduro idzodzo kune mamwe marudzi ehukama hwepabonde.
Kushungurudzika Kwepabonde paunenge Uchiedza Kuziva
Upenyu hwako hwepabonde hunogona kunge huri wekutanga hwekuedza kuve nemuviri wekutambudzika .
Pakutanga, kunyunyuta, "Ngatitorei mwana" inogona kunge yakashanduka. Pashure pemwedzi yekuedza, ndicho chinhu chekupedzisira iwe unoda kutaura kana kunzwa.
Kushungurudzika muukama hwepabonde kunowanzoonekwa kune vakaroorana vanoedza kuita nguva yekuita zvepabonde kwenguva yavo yakaorera. Kutsvakurudza kwakawana kuwedzera kwekusagadzikana kwepabonde-zvose zvevarume nevakadzi-kana nguva yakatarwa yekuita zvepabonde inoshandiswa kutora pamuviri.
Nokuti kuita zvepabonde zvakare inzira yekunzwa iri pedyo newawakaroorana naye, kushushikana muhupenyu hwako hwepedyo hunogona kukonzera kukanganisa muhukama hwako hwose.
Kusagamuchirwa Kwenguva Yokutsvaga Rubatsiro
Unofanira kuwana rini rubatsiro? Zvakanaka, kubva pakuona kwachiremba, uyu mubvunzo wakananga.
Kana wakanga uchiedza kuve nemimba kwegore rimwe, unofanira kuona chiremba wako . Kana uine makore makumi matatu nemashanu kana kupfuura , unofanira kutsvaga rubatsiro mushure memwedzi mitanhatu. Kana iwe uine zviratidzo kana njodzi dzinokonzerwa nekushaya mwana , taura nachiremba wako pakarepo.
Vamwe vakaroorana havana mharo pamusoro pokutsvaka rubatsiro kana nguva yasvika.
Zvisinei, chii chinoitika kana mumwe wenyu achida kuwana rubatsiro ikozvino, uye imwe inoda kumirira ? Izvi zvinogona kutungamirira kumakakatanwa.
Kusabvumirana Nekuda Kuudza Vamwe Vanhu Nezvekurwa
Kunze kwevakadzi vasina kuroorwa (kana varume) vachiedza kuva nomwana ane chirume kana kuti mupi weii , kusagadzikana kunowanzova chinetso chemhuri.
Kutaura pamusoro pekurwisana nevamwe vanhu isarudzo yaunoda kuita pamwechete.
Kana iwe uchibvumirana pamusoro paani uye kana iwe ungaudza, zvakanaka!
Kana zvisina kudaro, zvinhu zvinogona kuoma.
Munhu waanoda kushamwaridzana angave achinyadziswa kana kunyadziswa . Vanganzwa kunzwa kusagadzikana kwakanyanya kune imwe nyaya.
Uyo anoda kutaurira vamwe pamusoro pematambudziko anobereka angave akanzwa ari oga uye asingachagoni kutsigirwa kwevanhu. Izvi zvinogona kutungamirira kune dambudziko rakawanda kurarama nekusazvimirira pachako, manzwiro ekutsamwa kune waunofambidzana anoomerera pakuchengeta zvinhu zvakavanda, nekuwedzera ukama hukama.
Kutya Kuti Kana Ndicho "Chikanganiso Chako," Waunofambidzana Naye Achabva
"Ndinotya kuti iye achabva / iye achandisiya nokuti ndine mwana asina simba. Ndinotya kuti vachandisiya kune mumwe munhu anogona kuvapa mwana. "
Iko kutya kwakakurumbira uye imwechete iyo vanhu vakawanda havazomboratidzi kumudiwa wavo.
Kana ukama hwako huri hwakasimba, kusava nesimba hazvibviri kukuputsa iwe pachako. Nzira yakanakisisa yekugadzirisa kutya uku? Isai kunze uko. Taura nemumwe wako nezvekutya kwako.
Nyaya inofadza yechiratidzo: tsvakurudzo yakawana kuti avo vanozvitsvakira kuzvidzora uye kutsoropodza- ndiyo mhosva yangu, ndakazviunza izvi pachedu -zvitaura kuva nezvikamu zvakakwirira zvekushushikana mupfungwa.
Vanotsvakurudza vanotaura kuti vamwe varume nevakadzi vanosarudza kuzvidzora senzira yekubvisa dambudziko kubva kune avo vakaroorana. Mune mamwe mazwi, nokutaura, "Izvi ndizvo zvose zvangu," vanotarisira kuderedza kushungurudzika mupfungwa kwevanoda.
Zvisinei, zvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuti rudzi urwu rwekufunga runokanganisa ukama.
Hazvibatsiri kune chero munhu uye haabvisi kana kubvisa kushungurudzika kupi kune mumwe.
Mhirizhonga uye Kusuruvara pamusoro "Ndiani Ane Izvo Zvakaipisisa"
Ndiani ane icho chakaipisisa, iye anozviisa pasi pechirongwa chekare? Kana kuti uyo asingakwanisi (kana ari mumwe chete wezviviri), uye naizvozvo ane mutoro wekunzwa wekunzwa wakanganisa?
Ndiani ane zvakanyanya kuipa? Uyo ane urombo hunopesana nekuenzanisa , kana uyo anongopinda muimba oga, mune kliniki yekubereka, uye kuita bonhora paanoda ?
Kune vamwe vakaroorana, nyaya idzi dzinokonzera kutsamwa.
MaOlympic Painha haasi ega kune vakaroorana. Izvi zvinowanikwa pakati pekuberekwa kwevamwe kubvunzurudza vezera , uye zvirokwazvo kunze kweruzhinji rwekushaya rubatsiro.
Kusanzwisisana Nedzimwe Nzira Dzokugadzirisa
Munhu wese anotarisana nekuzvidya mwoyo nenzira dzakasiyana. Zvidzidzo zvakawanawo kusiyana kwepabonde nenzira iyo vanhu vanorarama nekushaya simba. Kusiyana uku kunogona kukonzera kusanzwisisana.
Semuenzaniso, mumwe munhu anokwanisa kupomera mumwe we "kusatarisira zvakakwana" kana kutarisana kwavo kwakanyanya kuderedzwa. Pamusoro peflip side, mumwe wako anogona kupomera mumwe we "kunyanyisa."
Zvidzidzo zvakare zvakawana kuti vakadzi vanowanzova nekunetseka kwepabonde kupfuura varume, zvisinei nokuti chii chinokonzera kusabereka. Izvi hazvirevi kuti varume havafariri. Chero bedzi kuti ukama hwavo hunoomesa huwandu hunobva pakuderera huri pasi.
Nhepfenyuro Dambudziko rekusakosha
Nharo pamusoro pemari haisi yega yevabereki vakashaya. Zvisinei, nokuti kusununguka kunogona kudhura zvikuru , kusagadzikana pamusoro pemari kwakawanda.
Co-pays, kuedza kubereka uye kurapwa kusina kufukidzwa nenishuwarenzi, kuenda kune uye kubva kumakiriniki ekuberekana , kurasikirwa nebasa nguva nekuda kwemitemo uye kugadzwa-zvose izvi zvinogona kutungamirira kumatambudziko emari.
Vakawanda vakaroorana havazodi kurapwa kweVF . Kune avo vanoita, zvinogona kutungamirira kune nguva refu yemari yemitoro.
Vanenge vose vakaroorana vanoenda kuburikidza neVIV vanoda kukwereta mari. Izvi zvinogona kureva makore ane chikwereti.
Kunyange kamwe kusununguka kana IVF iri shure kwako, kushungurudzika kwemari kwekushaya vana kunogona kutevera kwenguva yakati.
Zvimwe zvinogona kuwanikwa zvinokonzerwa nemari zvinosanganisira ...
- kusagadzikana pamusoro pekuda kutevera kurapwa (zvichienderana nemari)
- ingave uye kuti sei kukwereta mari
- kana kuti kwete kubvunza shamwari nevemhuri kuti vabatsirwe mune zvemari (kufanana nevanhu vakawanda )
- pasinei nekudarika mishonga uye kuenda kunonyoreswa (izvo zvinodhurawo)
Kusiyana kweMagariro Pamusoro Pokufambira Mberi kana Nhanho Dzinotevera
Vamwe vakaroorana vangave vasingawirirani pamusoro pekuda kutevera kurapa kweVIV kana chero kurapwa kwekubereka . Izvo zvisingabvumirano zvinogona kuwirirana nezvikwereti uye zvikwereti, asi zvinogonawo kunge zvisingafadzi nemishonga ivo pachavo.
Vakaroorana vangave vasina kubvumirana pamusoro pekutora nguva shomanana kubva kuongororwa uye kurapwa . Vanogona kusawirirana pamusoro pekunge vachiramba vachiedza kana kuti vafambire zvakanaka. Vanogona kusawirirana pamusoro pekuda kutevera kubvumirwa kana kurarama hupenyu hwusina mwana.
Apo mubvunzo wekushandisa mupi wega kana kuti mutsara unomuka, kugadzira zvisarudzo kunowedzera kunyanya uye kwakaoma. Ichi ndicho chikonzero chese makiriniki ose ekuberekana anoda kuti vanhu vakaroorana vataure nevanopa mazano vasati vatanga kupa mupiro kana kuti kupa mishonga yekuberekwa.
Chii Chaunogona Kuita Kuti Kuderedza Kudanana Kwepfungwa?
Kunyange zvazvo kumwe kutsvakurudza kwakawana kuti varume nevakadzi vanotarisana nekushaya simba vanogona kunge vachinzwa vasina kugutsikana navo pachavo nemichato yavo, zvimwe zvidzidzo zvakawana kuti zvinogona kuita kuti vakaroorana vawedzere pamwe.
Izvi hazvirevi kuti izvi zvinopesana nemhepo dzinotapukira kuburikidza nekushaya simba uye hazvikwikwidzi.
Pane zvinopesana, maererano nekutsvakurudza, ndiko kurwisana-uye kuda kwavo kubatsirana-kunotungamirira kushamwari yakachengeteka.
Hewa nzira dzaunogona kuderedza kukanganisa uye kurarama zviri nani sevakaroorana.
Kurukurirana : Tauriranai. Shandisai kutya. Usafamba-famba kunetseka mumwe wako angakusiya uye haatomborevi chinhu.
Kunyange zvazvo zvingave zvinotyisa kuunza, iwe ungangodaro uchinunurwa apo mumwe wako achikuvimbisa iwe kuti kusabereka hakuzovi kurega kuti vaende.
Kutaura pamusoro pekushaya vana kunogona kuva dambudziko kana mumwe wepamberi wekugadzirisa matanho ekudzivirira ndeyekudzivisa nyaya yacho zvachose. Inogonawo kuva chikonzero chemhirizhonga kana mumwe munhu anotaura nezvekushaya mwana "nguva dzose."
Chinokosha kuwana chikwereti.
Iva nechido chokutaura, kana kuti uchida kutaura pamusoro pazvo zvishoma, zvichienderana nechepi rutivi rwemari yaunowira.
Tsvaga nzira dzekubatanidza izvo zvisingabatanidzwi nekushaya simba : Kutaura nezvekuenzanisa, zvinokosha kuti kusabereka hakubatsiri kutaurirana kwako kwose.
Kunyanya pakati pekuedza kubereka uye kurapa, kusabatwa kunogona kuvhara zvinhu zvose muupenyu hwako. Iwe unogona kunge usingayeuki zvawakataura pamusoro pekuita kwako kusangana kwematambudziko akawirwa.
Ita miedzo yekubatana mune dzimwe nzira. Hungu, izvi zvinogona kunge zvichitsvaga kuedza.
Funga nezvezvawakaita panguva yako yepamberi mazuva. Kana, tsvaka imwe nguva yekuita zvinhu kana basa pamwe chete. Gara pasi uye uite urongwa hwezvinhu zvaunofanira kuita pamwechete.
Kutaura nezvekubatana, usaregeredza hupenyu hwako hwepabonde ! Kuzvidzorera kubva pakuberekwa, uye kuzviita pamusoro pehukama uye rudo zvakare. Izvi, zvakare, zvinotora kuedza.
Bvumira kusawirirana mune zvakaitika: Munhu wose anotora zvakasiyana. Iwe haugoni kutonga kuti munhu ane hanya nehunhu hupi kuburikidza nokutarisa kwavari kana kunyange nezviito zvavo.
Haasi munhu wose anosunga manzwiro avo pamasuo avo. Panguva imwecheteyo, chii chinoratidzika sechinhu chakakosha kune iwe chinogona kunge chiri chakanaka kwavari.
Izvi zvinounzawo nyaya yeOlympics Pain.
Ikoko pachava nemumwe munhu munyika ino ine "yakaipa" kana "yakanaka" kupfuura iwe. Munhu iyeyo angave kana kuti angave asina shamwari yako.
Hazvina basa.
Kana mumwe wako achivhuna ruoko rwake, uye iwe ukavhuna zvigunwe zvako zviduku, unoita zvigunwe zvako zvisingakuvadzi here nokuti ruoko rwake rwakaputsika "rwakanyanya kuipa?" Ichokwadi kwete.
Kushungurudzika mupfungwa kunorwadza mupfungwa. Kupa mumwe nomumwe rubatsiro-pasina zvikonzero kana kuti kufananidza-ndiyo nzira yehugare.
Shingairira rubatsiro rwemagariro evanhu : Ndapota usaedza kumira nekushaya urombo chete.
Kunyadzisa kunochengetedza vanhu vakawanda uye vakaroorana kubva kuedza kutsigira. Zvisinei, kutsvakurudza kwakawana kuti vakaroorana vanogamuchira rubatsiro rwemagariro evanhu vakavandudza hukama.
Rubatsiro rwemagariro rwakave rwakawanikwawo ruzivo rwevakadzi vanobata nekushaya vana.
Iwe haufaniri "kutaurira nyika," kutaura. Iwe unogona kusarudza kugovera ruzivo neshamwari chete kana nhengo dzemhuri. Ingoedza kuedza kuzviita zvose iwe pachako.
Gara pasi uye ita urongwa pamwe chete : Tsvakurudzo yakawana kuti kuisa pamwe chirongwa chekubatsira kunobatsira kugadzirisa kugutsikana mumhuri, kunyanya kune varume.
Mune dzimwe nzira, kusabereka hakusi kuronga-kugutsikana. Iwe unogona kunge usinganyatsoziva kuti nguva yako yekurwisana ichave yakadii kana kuti kuongororwa kana kurapwa kuchadikanwa.
Zvisinei, iwe unogona kuita zvishoma kuita zvirongwa zvenguva pfupi. Iwe unogonawo kuita zvirongwa zvinoenderana.
Zvakanaka kutaura pamusoro pezvaungaita kudai iwe waida IVF, kunyange kana IVF isiri radar. Uye zvakafanira kuita zvirongwa izvi, uchiziva kuti iwe unogona kuchinja mafungiro ako gare gare.
Kuisa pamwe zvirongwa zvemari-kunyanya chirongwa chokuchengetedza-chisarudzo chakanaka. Nokukurumidza iwe uchitanga kuisa mari kunze, zviri nani. Kana iwe usingadi kuti uwane mari yekurapa mari kana kuti kutora mari, unogona kuishandisa kune chimwe chinhu. Hapana chakaipa chakaitwa.
Kubvumirana : Zvingava nharo pamusoro pekuti ndiani angataura kana kuti angabhadhara sei pakushandisa kurapwa, rega kusviba-uye-white kufunga uye chinangwa chekutengesa.
Pane mumwe wenyu anoda kuudza vamwe nezvekushaya simba, asi imwe inoda kuichengeta yakavanzika here? Sarudza pamwe chete pane boka rakasarudzwa revanhu vanogona kunge vari vanhu vanotsigira.
Mumwe wenyu anoda kumira zvakanaka, asi imwe inoda kuramba ichienda? Kunyengedza nokutora kupfuvura kwenguva pfupi panzvimbo, nezvirongwa zvekukurukurirana kuenda mberi mberi apo kuparara uku kwapera.
Funga nezvekupa mazano : Dzimwe nguva, iwe hauzokwanise kusvika kune zvimwe zvinhu. Mupi wezano anogona kukubatsira kuti ukurukure uye usvike kune zvibvumirano.
Unogona kufunga kuti kupa mazano kune avo vanofunga nezvekurambana, kana mamiriro ekurasikirwa nekuora mwoyo kana kuti kuzvidya mwoyo .
Iyi inhema.
Kupa mazano ndeyevanhu vose vanogona kushandisa rubatsiro rwakawedzerwa nekudzvinyirira kana mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma.
Pasinei nokuti unoona mushonga semunhu, kana semurume nemudzimai, inogona kubatsira. Paunonzwa uchitsigirwa, iwe unogona kunge uchikwanisa kutarisana neukama hwako.
Yeuka kuti kusabereka hakusi kwekusingaperi : Unogona kana unenge usina vana rimwe zuva. Asi iwe hauzove wakanetseka kuva nemimba nokusingaperi.
Kutsvakurudza kwakawana kuti manzwiro ekuora mwoyo uye kuzvidya mwoyo zvakapoteredza makore matatu mushure mekushaya zvirwere.
Zvisinei, makore matanhatu mushure mekuongororwa, vakaroorana vari kunzwa vakasimba, uye kuora mwoyo uye zviratidzo zvekuzvidya mwoyo zvishoma.
Ukama hwenyu hunogona kupona ichi chakaoma-asi kwenguva pfupi-dambudziko. Nenguva, uye zvichida kupa mazano, kuedza kwako kutora makore kunogona kukuunza iwe pedyo.
Pakupedzisira, iwe unogona kuva nemwana kana kumira kuedza kubata. Asi kune hupenyu shure kwekusabereka.
Batisisa tariro iyoyo.
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